Topic: How "it" ends?
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Sat 03/04/17 07:15 PM
Edited by Kris100415 on Sat 03/04/17 07:22 PM
You meet people online, you start chatting, you develop feelings, and then what's next?
Meet up? Too far...
Misunderstandings occur? Possibly...
Block? ohhh...
There are many possible ways how this will end. Name one...

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Sat 03/04/17 07:24 PM
Every time you find out they're a scammer/video girl, or maybe it's just me.

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Sat 03/04/17 08:10 PM
ohh.. i get you.. well, i am talking about nice girls or men. :wink:

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Sat 03/04/17 08:29 PM
some people can get quite upset if one party ends a "relationship".. even if you haven't met.

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Sat 03/04/17 08:51 PM
something went wrong then.. what was it?

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Sat 03/04/17 08:55 PM
it could be any manner of things.. disagreement, misunderstanding, not showing up to prearranged event.. etc, etc.

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Sat 03/04/17 09:00 PM
misunderstandings and disagreements are common between 2 people who only talk online. it both parties won't work it out, then there goes the blocking...

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Sat 03/04/17 09:08 PM
I think you can get an idea if a "relationship" online is going well or not. I also think if you get the feeling it's not going well it's best to end it early rather than put up with things you feel are not right.

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Sat 03/04/17 09:13 PM
I couldn't understand why any guy would want to end a relationship with you.. as you are a very attractive girl

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Sat 03/04/17 09:24 PM
Agreed... There is no foundation in this kind of relationship. Maybe both want to continue and work things out, but sometimes, we might just be too afraid to do it coz of the question "WHAT IF.....?"

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Sat 03/04/17 09:27 PM
I agree with you.. I think there are moments when you are chatting to someone that you don't like what they are talking about or similar.. one thing can lead to another and it could lead to violence and in may cases it does.. even worse

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Sat 03/04/17 09:29 PM
Thanks... It doesn't matter WHO ends it. The question is WHY or HOW?:wink:

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Sat 03/04/17 09:33 PM
I think whoever ends it they should resist any further conversation with the other person because it could turn into arguments. Best to get out while going is good.

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Sat 03/04/17 09:34 PM
Well, you would somehow get the feeling if the person u r chatting with is nice or not. Each party should be very keen about this. Nobody trusts nobody. At least, not yet... until u get to know each other better..

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Sat 03/04/17 09:36 PM
But then again, someone can come across as very trusting just to get your confidence.. then use your confidence against you by asking for sex money etc

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Sat 03/04/17 09:46 PM
so how is it in Shanghai at the moment.. what is the weather now?

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Sun 03/05/17 07:34 AM
How "it" ends?

Bill crushes the heart after Ben destroys the eggs!
Spoiler!

You meet people online

You only meet their biased avatar, and then fill in the blanks with your preconceptions and biased reality.

You don't really meet people online.

you start chatting, you develop feelings, and then what's next?

Usually nothing. Someone chickens out, someone comes up with excuses, someone feels anxiety and looks for reasons to blame you for them and call everything off.

Or you meet in person.

IME depends on how long you've actually sat there chatting.

There are many possible ways how this will end. Name one...

You get tired of the loss of control of being rejected so you go find the forums where you can feel a false sense of security and control over the relationships you pretend to develop with complete strangers.

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Tue 05/02/17 10:37 PM
it ends when both parties dont talk anymore and just give up :flushed: