Sooo my ex is a senior in high school but she moved to NY and im in RI.....Her senior class is taking a trip to Boston so I decided that I wanted to meet her for a few. So i did. I havent seen her is so long and the secoond we saw eachother we just smiled and gave eachother such big hugs and a kiss. She might come back to RI for college but i told her i dont want to take her away from her friends because she has some close friends in NY. I had a trust issue with her when we were together. btw we were together for 2 years. We just miss eachother. What does everyone think?? I really wanna get back with her but right now its so difficult especially since her mom hates me.

Seeing her for just that half hour made me so happy and i miss so much about her.

I think I'd ask myself if that trust issue is going to be a problem again. Especially considering that you are both separated by living in different places now.

But you didn't specifically state why your ex is an ex. Whatever the reason that she is - has that reason changed or are you just missing her?

Good luck no matter what you decide though!

I broke up with her because i couldnt trust her....But since i have broken up with her shes realizing that i was right for her. I would only go back to her if she moved back to RI because where she lives is a 7 hour drive from me. and thats to much

What I can tell you is you need to find out what she wants first. If you both want to be with each other than that should be all that matters. Love is love. But if she doesn't think she wants to be with you again then don't take it too hard. I know it's tough but there are other fish in the water. But you definately need to find out why you want to be with her and if she wants to be with you. Because, and don't be offended by this, I mean nothing by it...you shouldn't want to be with her just because of comfort reasons, which is why a lot of people can't let go.

She wants to be with me more it seems. And im not offened by that. Just the past few months has been weird every girl I have talked to has not compared to my ex. And I always seemed to think of her. I broke up with her last april and for some reason I just do not want to let go.

Then try this...grab a pen and paper and make a list of three things: what you like about her, what you don't like about her or have problems with, and any reality of why you're not together.