take it slow you may be crowding him for to much to soon. your a beauty and i'm sure he seen that in you. give him time to figure things out.

Most men, but not all...On behalf of those bad apples, I apologize for their ill manner.

I would wait and see what happens. So people don't liek to chta everyday. I prefer to myself over email, IM , or phone. There are some nice people here you can chat with.

Welcome to just say hi. :)

Ryan

Thanks roadie. I have totally lost faith in all men and I am not kidding.

onegoofydame...Im feeling a bit like that too, when you get ready to go to the nunnery can you pass the address on to me, Im seeking a refuge too.

I just had a funny thought...what if we were all actually talking about the same man....

No sh*t, right? Actually...there are several men in my past who have helped me to develop my current philosophy on men. Thanks so much to them all. They are so awesome (f*ckers).

onegoofydame-I agree. I don't think any of them are worth my time anymore. The situation in this thread is a perfect example of why I'm about to give up.

Every relationship is different. I've heard some say that one month is too soon for that kinda committment, but really it depends on the two people. A few weeks ago I emailed a guy that lived about 15 minutes from me. Funny thing is we've crossed paths about 10 years ago but never really said anything to each other. Since the first weekend of this month we've talked nonstop. That first weekend we talked for 16 hours in a two day period and not a single topic came up twice. I wasn't expecting anything really cause his profile said he wasn't looking for a relationship, but we surprised ourselves. We talk on the phone everyday and see each other almost everyday (except this weekend him and a friend went hunting).

Though we don't talk everyday because we need to, we talk everyday because we want to. I am one that likes to talk so talking everyday is cool with me. But if it wasn't cool with him, I wouldn't have pushed the issue. I wouldn't go chasing the guy, the last guy before Craig, I did that. I was insecure because he was saying and planning stuff about our future, but yet he was still very active on another dating website. I would call him and wonder what he was doing if he didn't answer. If he's into you then he'll come to you. When/If that happens just be upfront and talk to him about what you need, don't demand anything. If he can't give you what you need, then cut your lose and move on.

First off Stylish.You have done nothing wrong!!!!!!!
Your relationship had come to a point where you felt sucure wonting more.Don't beat yourself up hear.You deserve what you need.
And if he a problem,Than it is his.You may realy want to let this one go.As you see.Lots of thoughts hear.
Good luck!!

I don't think it should be a requirement. Somebody should call you because they want to. And the phone line works both ways. If you were dying to hear his voice, why didn't you call him? Of course, if he shounds annoyed that you called, that is a clear sign, and you should stop it, all together! If he wants you, then he needs to make you feel wanted. If he doesn't fill that need, you need to move on.

I send text messages to just let someone know I'm thinking about them sometimes. Just a thought.

Thanks roadie!you prove there are still a few good men left

Not all of us treat women like that. Personally a while back I was considering being a priest. Because it seem the ladies seem to only date the bad boys and not the nice guys. We nice guys are out there.

Wow, thanks everyone. Great advice, I will keep it all in mind.

Chateh I noticed in you profile you don't like pickup lines. The last time I picked up a ldy which was in dec 1995 what I told her was Hi there my names Arliss. I know not much of a line didint mean it to be just wanted to intoreduce myself to her.