This is the kind of question that logic just can't handle very well.
Many people choose their mate according to criteria that may not answer
their soul's yearnings. In a recent survey, only 8% of the people
questioned who had been married for more than 15 years had married
someone they considered to be a soul mate! Factoring in divorce rates,
this means that only 3% of newly wedded couples will find this sort of
deep, "heaven sent" love within their marriages. What a bummer!
People need more guidance in making important decisions like these. Just
trusting your guts is scary, and besides, who hasn't strolled down the
primrose path with someone in love, only to discover a briar patch at
the end?
This is where authentic divination can help. Confusion about love is a
human dilemma that has plagued people since the beginning of time. In
ancient times, oracles were consulted to aid parents in arranging
marriages for their children. In modern times, authentic tools like
Numerology, Astrology, Tarot and I-Ching help us step outside our
ego-based emotions to gain clarity about the people and situations that
matter most to us.
Among these tools, the ancient science of Numerology offers practical
insight into the soul mate question. By calculating your numerological
profile - based on your name and birth date - and comparing it to the
qualities revealed in the other person's numerological profile, a
Numerology Compatibility Report will indicate how deep the connection
between the two of you can be. A key "soul mate" indicator in Numerology
is the Heart's Desire Compatibility factor.
When infatuation wears off, and the challenges of daily life ask more of
your relationship, will your hearts' desires collide in conflict … or
support each other in a lifetime of loving fulfillment?

Soul mate? True Love? Lover? There are MANY terms and labels, out
there...pick one...pick your favorite...Go to the cards, the witches,
God, or whatever you want...pray to whoever or whatever...get
advice...walk your walk in life and set your own goals or listen to
everyone around you...Consult the stars, talk to ministers, talk to a
councerler...ect, ect...I can go on and on...all of this kind of thing
is foolish and silly...the only way you can find and keep your ''TRUE
LOVED ONE'' is for you and that special one you are searching for and,
maybe, have found, is to WORK ON THE RELATIONSHIP////YES, I said the W
word...WORK...ALL relationships demand WORK...no matter what kind they
are...be they boy friend, girl friend, husband, wife, daughter, son,
mother, father, friend...ect....ALL DEMAND WORK! Working on
relationships, getting relationships, and keeping relationships is NOT
in the stars, numbers, or ect...it is something DEEP WITHIN each of
us...it is something called ''give and take''...it is something more
than words can write or thoughts can express...it can and is spiritual,
but it is more than that, even, it's called, GIVING OF ONES SELF and a
word that bears repeating...WORK...But not JUST WORK....Work done with
JOY of knowing that our work shall NOT BE IN VAIN, IF we keep on keeping
on WITH LOVE towards others...not love JUST FOR our ''soul mate'', but
love towards ALL.

tRUTHORLIFE, I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER. I BELIEVE THE WAY YOU DO.
ALTHOUGH, I DO BELIEVE IN SOUL-MATES, SOULMATE NEEDS WORK AS WELL, BUT
THE DEEP CLOSENESS YOU FEEL WHEN YOU DO MEET YOUR SOUL-MATE IS
MIRACULOUS! SOMETHING UNDESCRIBABLE, I KONWI HAVE EXPERIENCED THIS.
UNFORTUNATELY, HE PASSED AWAY ABOUT A YEAR AGO, EVEN THOUGH WE HAD BEEN
SEPERATED FOR A FEW YEARS. WE ALWAYS TALKED ON THE EVERYDAY, I MISS HIM
DEEPLY! NO WORDS CAN EXPLAIN. I DO KNOW THERE ARE MORE SOUL-MATES THAN
JUST 1 FOR EVERYONE OF US. I PRAY AND I AM WAITING FOR HIM TO ALIGHT
UPON ME. I DON'T MIND WORKING AT ALL IN ANY RELATIONSHIP. THANK YOU FOR
YOUR SHARING, GREENEYES

you never know till you try

Don't foreget. Pay for a dating site or a free one. What ever works in
you favor.