no bull**** ladies. so whut the hell do girls look for in a guy, and then when they find that whut makes it so they wanna stay and not go all weird on us. ( ad yes im sure its not just the girls fault but...) im just curious. i tend to understnd and then get thrown through a loophole. i dont need relationship advice, just answer if u want

Honestly for me a guy has to have morals and doesn't act different when he's around his "boys". Someone who is REAL.... If you stay the same and do something to spice up the relationship every now and then it will last.

ok, now why do girls always try nd change after the facr that they know u, say 6 monthsinto it

Yeah dude it has to be a mutual conncetion.
If she is a career women you have to be one.
If she is a crackhead you have to be a crackhead.

Oh what the whole *****y and doubting the relationship thing?

well no sit bro, say i smoke, but then she breaks up with me becuz i smok, but then a month later she with some other dude that smokes???

i aint doubtin nothin im just sick of all relationships bein the same

O well then youre gettin wit the wrong girls baby... No one should say that something is bad then go right to someone else that does that same bad thing... Chick is a hypocrite...

ya know ****, but, its happend with 3 ofmy serious relationships

I look for a guy that is a lot like me. I'm a writer, and thus look for other writers. I look for someone responsible, caring, and who is ready to settle. If I wanted a party person, I'd go to a party. If I wanted someone who wants to shirk off responsibility, I'd go to a homeless shelter. Lol. I'm all about the people that know what to do, when to do it, and that match my personality. I also look for someone with the same sense of humor as me, because a lot of people don't understand it.

sweet, see i do the same thing but then 6 months later like i said **** changes and there it gos again, maybe girls dont see t becuz well ur a girl.

You need to look for a different type of girl then... Sometimes you gotta go threw the bad to find a good one... I kept on picking the abusive guys and you keep on picking the hypocrites...

I like a man to appreciate that I can work as hard as he can,
who doesn't mind that I have an independent side someone who can accept me for who I am. who is willing to work an honest living and who is not into keeping up with the jones theory
someone I know I can go to if I had a bad day someone I can talk to

I always thought girls wanted men who could recite all the characters in the Final Fantasy game series, along with the defining characteristics of each.

I guess that explains a lot (not that I could do the aforementioned thing anyway).

Well, it's true, I'm a girl. *double checks* Yep, I'm a girl. But it doesn't mean that all of them are like that. Like it was said, you keep on picking the bad ones.

What is the first thing you look for in a girl?

I don't believe you.

im sure some girl would find that hott lol

Dude, all these headaches add up to one thing... Men and women alike, we are all animals. People ask what our purpose is in life and the answer, in accordance to nature, is to survive and reproduce. Whether your are a man or a woman if you can steadily show benefit to the opposite sex's survival a reproduction then you are golden....according to the textbooks anyway. Most people get very offended by this theory because it simplifies a seemingly complicated subject. Not to mention it it demoralizing to be put in the same catagory as wild animals.

first thing look for or first thing eye see. i look at eyes first bt then nexy is personality, is she a *****, is she uptight, is she relaxed....

I don't believe that you don't believe me.