Topic: Should I marry to him?
00Naomi00's photo
Thu 12/22/16 05:28 PM
Our wedding is next summer. I feel his parents like to control everything. Including wedding flowers,house situations.

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 12/22/16 05:30 PM
How would strangers know? It is up to you. But the fact you are on a dating site and asking strangers, isn't a good sign

00Naomi00's photo
Thu 12/22/16 05:38 PM
I guess....

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 12/22/16 06:00 PM
i am curious why

Alamingle's photo
Thu 12/22/16 06:08 PM
Marriage generally works better without interference from outsiders. If your man is not "man" enough or "wise" enough to know this, then you should reconsider marrying him.

A man or woman should not allow family or friends to dictate what happens in their relationship.

And this is why in marriage, it is better to go to a marriage counselor with problems rather than going to friends or dad or mum or whoever.

Wishing you all the best.

00Naomi00's photo
Thu 12/22/16 06:24 PM
His mom has strong opinion. Have hard time to trust people from outside family (me) That's how I feel

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 12/22/16 06:33 PM
This is something you need to discuss with him. This is a dating site. We don't know the whole story or what is going on.

no photo
Thu 12/22/16 07:01 PM
Edited by Cheeriosoo on Thu 12/22/16 07:02 PM

Our wedding is next summer. I feel his parents like to control everything. Including wedding flowers,house situations.


I believe you already know the answer of this kind of rhetorical question, if there is a question. If you are asking for advice, you need to sit down a have a serious talk, you are the one that know all the angles, at the end there are two sides to a story.

no photo
Thu 12/22/16 07:09 PM



Should I marry to him?



It's all upto you if you should marry "to" him....probably of you really loved him you would've known wether you should marry to him or marry to someone else embarassed frown

no photo
Thu 12/22/16 07:09 PM
Edited by unknown_romeo on Thu 12/22/16 07:10 PM
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no photo
Thu 12/22/16 07:54 PM
How can anyone here help you?

We do not know you or him...try talking to someone who knows you well and who can be trusted.
Hopefully there is someone like that near you now.

If not...well, think about it and think well before you go on with the wedding.

Is that what you really REALLY want?

Why are you getting married?

Can you imagine your life together with all that it implies?

Do you want it?

00Naomi00's photo
Thu 12/22/16 09:05 PM
Thank you :smile:

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 12/22/16 09:22 PM
If his parents are control freaks now, then they will probably be no different as in-laws.