Hello my M2 friends, I want to get back to my controversial hot tea forums. Okay, America I have a buddy I befriended for quite sometime & he always been a kind of wise when it comes to life. But lately I think he knows he made a bad decision in getting involved with a girl that's nothing but pure trouble. An incident in my world studies class just confirmed to us all that she's a lunatic with a control issue & not very lady like. To make things worst we have a mutual friend which is a woman , she like one of the guys to us but she asked him a question and Ms. Not The One flipped out on him & embarrass him, & putting out crass business in the middle of class. M2, let me ask you this, could you be with a person that you know isn't right for you in so many ways but you haven't been with anybody in a while so you jump at the chance to have companionship. Would you deal with this or would you tell her off , grow a pair & then leave? Well I'm interested in your comments, let's talk!

Maybe.
Depends on how she is right for me in other ways.


That kind of relationship will run its course.
It's just never in a desirable time frame.

CireTom,


You know buddy I think you right. I hate to see a good friend be treated like elephant dong just to want love.

That depends on how one defines companionship.

I think it's safe to say that we've all done this at lest once, maybe not with someone that cray-cray but desperation comes in many forms. It's not a healthy thing to do and no one should stay there just because they think they ether can't find or don't deserve better. I personally would rather live the rest of my life single then get involved in something like that again.

I've already been in that situation a few times...once it was with a girl & my relationship got serious with her gradually & was too late to back off...even tho I knew she wasn't right for me when I met her, I intended to not have anything but then we started having wild sex each day & one thing led to another...another time I needed love & comfort & I met this chick who gave just what i needed,had a 3 year relationship with her...another time was I was simply in lust with this hot young fresh sexy juicy virgin chick 13 yrs younger then me(in her early 20s) & she knew that & she seduced me & we got it on each day upto date still going on......


However i'm wiser now & dont end up with wrong chicks anymore....dont get me wrong these were all fine chicks..but not my type who I'd really consider an ideal soul mate

Telling her off would be one way of dealing with it. Then you would need to deal with the consequences of how you told her off.

I'm not sure that disposing of someone who you find is an inconvenience in your life is the best way of growing a pair. But it may well be the best action when you are not capable of dealing with them.

My ideal way of dealing with the girl you describe would be to let her know which actions I didnt find acceptable. Then attempt o find out what motivated her actions and also investigate her willingness to change them. So it could then become a journey of mutual understanding. The assistance of professional guidance whether through consultation or referencing books and web sources could be helpful.

If on the other hand I wasnt capable of acting in her interest and chose to allow my overriding interest in my own need of comfort and companionship to have priority I would need to find a different way to deal with it. The easiest way being to blame her for being who she is. Then I would need to deal with the consequences of that.

So however we deal with life we then have to deal with the consequences

EyeAmYourHost39,

Hello M2, well I ran into this same friend and I'm happy to report to you guys he's no longer perusing her as a love interest. I guess as good friends to him I figured if you plant a seed into his thoughts with wisdom and options, and allow time for him to think rationally , at the end it all works itself out!

Dodo_David,

Well..... do you in your opinion think people who does that are so-called insane?

Unknown_Romeo,

Wow buddy I'm glad you are older & wiser now to see growth and making better choices for yourself.......yeah I think we all dated at least one person we look back now and say " Oh, I'm so glad I'm over you".

DNBlue,

Good words of wisdom, see I love it when my " Vocal Avengers" voice wisdom because maybe your words that you post may touch the youth that may follow my forums and may be or know somebody in a situation and can use advice.....thanks again keep posting.!

SimplyComplicated

You as well I love to hear from you bring wisdom and rationally. thank you again!

well she certainly sounds like a bad woman... eager to break the rules and do what most woman don't. Usually I don't get involved directly but in this case I will make a exception

What is her name and tel. number #

( P.S... Is she good looking?,if not just disregard this post)

However I have to share from personal experience in having sex with women that you never know when they will explode with anger ... as they are stuck in their toddler tantrum.

An example would be Bristol ' Big Middle Finger ' Palin .. she is a gernade with the pin pulled. Sure the sex is wild but after a few times with her going off .. it gets tiresome and would drive away a hardened US Marine ... I am sorry to say.

sumbuddie wear blind sea

This one is very simple, that sounds like a caustic relationship, again two sides of a story. So the results is simple and rhetoric.