How does all this actually work?

Welcome to the asylum known as mingle...

I wish you the best of luck here...

Let's see. It works like any other date site. Except nudges ( or flirts) and to send and receive messages are free..

Women have to send a picture to a man. He can not send one to her first.

Um you can search for people in a set of parameters and they are listed by active users first..

Um you can set limits on who can send you messages. But everyone can still view your profile and post on your forum topics.

Um oh yea just be yourself, trust your instincts, and have fun.