hi I'm looking for a good guy to chat with on here but all I seem to find are guys that wanna chat dirty or send nudes where are all the good guys why are they so hard to find

Same problem here.

u think there would have to be some decent guys out there

Just don't give these guys the time of day. If they message you inappropriately, ignore them, block them, and move on. Little time wasted on your part and you can focus your energy on the decent guys on the site, who are actually here. I think if most women here felt confident enough to not validate such behavior, it would actually send a strong message that this is not tolerated by women online or in person.

Be strong, present yourself well, know your value, and best of luck in your search here!

Hey

Yes I agree most guys talk dirty or they are to young and how do you know when you are talking to someone more serious

There are decent guys out there. They are looking for women who aren't still legally married.

Hello how are you

U can not generalized all the guys. U have to search more and I hope definitely u will get good guys also.

There seems to be a few. But usually alot of guys and gals wind up here after being on sites where that is expected.

the good guys are taken because women outnumber them.... a lot of good women too little good men

Hello

I mean given your a female it's kinda just a waiting game for you. Naturally a guy should come to you. But I know this without knowing you that "nice" guys have approached you since your search of men was "nice" I think you should just give the guy who seems interested.

Who is interested in meeting and mingle? #Justfriendship

There are a few of us left that aren't after one thing and are happy to just take time to get to know the person first it's just a shame that there are guys who just see women as objects which as I've found through experience there are women who do the same when all us decent guys just want to find someone who'll love them for who they are not what they earn or what they can get. To many good people just get used these days unfortunately