b -- I left my ex-wife because a.) she got possessive to the point I actually either had to take her to work with me or drop her off at her mother's house as a distraction for her so I could get something done, and b.) she started taking drugs on those visits to her mother's house.

It's really that simple.

Most of the rest I left within 3-6 months because the attraction of the cute airhead wears off pretty quickly. That was more a result of my being younger and stupider and not being interested in thinking more long-term at the time. Really, more of a reflex than a relationship.

thanks lex...yeah i can't get past 3 days

i meant 3 wks...

i can't get past 3 months either,,

Like the thread Bgeorge,,are we dating the same guys?!?!?!

evidently...lol...good luck to you.....my oldest son says i should stop being the chooser and try being the loser..nope don't think so......lol

your older son OBVIOULSY get his wisdom from his mom,,

Tell him,,I'm gonna give that a shot,,

Or date 20 somethings,,,lol

They left me because I was stupid enough to be with the lying, cheating whores in the first place. If I would have told em to F off when I met em I'd have been better off. Why don't you ask them why they left me. They will give the same bs excuses the women on here give me. What a joke. A bad one at that. Wht don't you just ask us why are men so stupid? Or why are men just so gulliable? How about why is it good men don't have any tolerance for womens behavior? Kind of tired of this its the mans fault ALL THE TIME. Can't you blame your freaking cat for anything?

longhair post a question asking that...
It is equal posting here...

Nope. I got a new answer for these men bashing posts: "have fun being single!"

because i already know the answer lhb...i love being single and i don't lie...and the only thing i love more that my kids is men...i'm not a nag, biotch, whore or slut...well maybe a little slutty but that's another topic...lol...i usually agree w/your common sense in your face comments...and miss you when you're gone for long...brenda

I do not believe this to be a bashing post...
I am not a man basher...
and I love being single...
JMO

well my wife left me because she waas getting really fat and I told her come June i am going to **** something skinny , it can be you or some else I dont care

Shady, if that is true, shame on you!

Anyways, BGeorge, I have not had so much of that problem. Most guys that I have dated have been honest. Grew apart, someone cheated, etc, etc.

I have found that some do not like that I have a good relationship with my ex-husband. Especially when they find out the how's (not the why's) of our divorce. It was ugly, but we have both gotten past it and are truly friends.

On the good news front, I have made it past the 4 week mark with the guy I am currently seeing. 6 weeks tomorrow since our first real live date. 4 weeks seems to the be average for me since I jumped in the deep end of the dating pool.

M

good luck to you michele...might be "the one"