haha. thanks. not so much. i usually don't put myself in situations where it would be difficult, so. and i'm really immature, in that, i'm pretty silly. which i'm finding is a turn-off, apparently...meh.

Well..that all depends on who you are with. I love a girl who can be silly for no reason. Hell I am guilty of that myself! Check out my profile..its funny you said that to me of all people.

I think its easier to not have sex when you have never when u have ... 2 weeks broke up with my girl 1 week ago after 2 years........

3 weeks...I left my ex cause he was on drugs......stole my car and everything i owned...yea...bad expirence here too!!!!

haha. see? i knew that ash...it's like i have espn or something...hahaha.

Espn? Just teasing..

Its been 13 months for me. I had suspicions she was cheating and the next thing you know i caught her leaving on 2 different occasions at about 10pm. Once she left for 1 1/2 hours and said she went to the bank. Its only around the corner from the apartment. On the other occasion, she left at about the same time for 1 1/2 hours and said she went to the laundry mat to pay the babysiter. Yes the babysiter works at the laundry mat but its only 10min away. I seperated from her Oct of last year and have been divorced since Aug of this year. It cost me $4,500.00 for my lawyer. He is a good lawyer though. She wanted my pension, 401k,and spousal support. She didnt get any of it. But i did have to pay $60,000.00 of debt we had between us. The debt is payed off and i only pay her $250.00 a month in child support. We have a 6yr old son together, which i have him 5 times out of the week. It sucks but life goes on. I have been looking for dates but not too successful yet. I have only been on JSH for a little while.

it's from mean girls, ash. i'm blonde...but not THAT blonde...hahaha.

and you guys are totally bringing me down. all these sad stories. :[ free hugs?

Ya know it sucks to have your heart broke and to experience betrayal by someone you thought you could trust. But the past is the past and so I try to learn from it, but not be trapped by it. Thats why I am here..I am not giving up. Somewhere out there is a woman who is right for me, just gotta find her. I am in no hurry though. Maybe thats where I went wrong last time? I didnt take the time to really get to know my ex before we got intimate. I envy you Kat, or atleast I envy your ability to wait.

Break up is not always a bad thing im afriad ... Ill take the hugs though

thanks, ash. and you're welcome to em, kalamazoo! :]

I wish I was still a virgin.. sex has been more trouble then anything else. haha.

there is nothing wrong with being silly either... I like sillyness it makes me feel, like I am not the only silly one in life.

honestly, i've had soooo many people tell me they wish they were still a virgin....i don't regret it at all.

and neil...you are definitely not the only silly one. :]

3 months!!!! and because i dont just sleep with anybody

Dec 95 was it for me. And why I'm selective and I dont want to catch anything. and the next time I have sex it will be with either my future wife of fiance if the finace and I are living together if not then not until the wedding night

BEEN A LONG TIME HERE, TRYING TO REMEMBER WHO TIES UP WHO, LOL

5.5 hours ago. It was at a cheap beer stained place that offers $8 Tuace shots chilled to 8 degrees. The sign says Mexican food, but don't order the nachos. She was my soulmate. I watched her hustle some $20s from a couple of drunk guys on video bowling, then we played Texas Hold'em. I bluffed and took her for all she had. "Just bustin' yer chops" I said. We made love between a Tahoe and a little hybrid in the parking lot outside a gourmet meat store.

The texting afterwards still sends tingles through me.

hmmph.. It has been a month.. I am a sattyr too.. thats hard stuff on me.. And sigh Ash.. i feel your pain bro.. that was horrible that she got an abortion too... thats ****ed up.. women like that... just... eat away at nice guys.. I swear man.. for all the women who complain about all guys being assholes.. there is a women who is a ***** to a good guy...

I myself.. was engaged to a girl.. and She had this friend she knew from high school who was in the marines.. she decided when he came home on leave.. she would ditch me and hang with him.. well guys can tell when a guy likes a girl.. well he was emphatuated with my girl.. he came to my house.. and ****.. grrr.. he ended up starting to have sex with my girl.. and she finally stopped him after a bit because "it was wrong, and she felt bad" but uhm.. sorry the deed was done.. damage inflicted.. I told her to tell me if she cheated because I never caught her.. so for the next 3 months I was highly suspicious and finally ended the relationship.. I let her keep the engagement ring and everything.. i wanted nothing to remind me of her.. She finally admitted to it afterwards... Dirty girls man.. they can be trouble..

I on the other hand confronted that asshole later.. and told him.. If I ever seen him around here again.. I would kill him, no matter how bad ass he thought he was by being in the marines.. and he disappeared needless to say.. never seen him again..

No worries now though.. I have a good girl.. who has experienced the same kind of pain I have.. and we share a unique bond.. I am openly proud to admit when I was with her.. and we had to leave after spending time together.. I cried.. o well.. I didn't ever wana leave her side.. but give me 7 days.. and I will be with her again.. but this time I will be with her for 4 days! Woo Hoo..

Thursday will make it 4 weeks for me. Ex started drinking again and we ended up being homeless for a month...........That's all I'm sayin for now. Still a little traumatic for me.