Why do people play the match game yet they can't bring themselves to just message me with "Hi" or something???

I have had 9 "matches" in the last hour yet since l'm not upgrading my membership status I never get to contact them back.

I have put up on my profile that I don't "do" matches, but they obviously only see my *overwhelmingly handsome European looks & can't be bothered to check out any thing else about me!!!


* for anyone who doesn't understand Brit self effacing humour, you just witnessed it!!!

Since I posted this thread 5 mins ago another "person" has clicked on my match button, so (un)lucky me is now up to 10 hits!!!

The help and bug forums are over there. >>>>

Yup happens to all of us here. But sooner or later you'll get some one drunk enough to send you a message.

<----------<<<<<< darn I thought the help forums were over there.

I think a lot of people are afraid. They want someone else to make the first move.

* looks into the mirror* um sorry but it's not a mask. * shrugs*

But l'm sure you have a real nice personality!!!!......*raises eyebrows!*

Yup I'm growing a prickly pear on it.

Yup I'm growing a prickly pear on it.


Is that the one you have on your face or am I just being facetious?

You must be. I was talking about the cactus with the purplish fruit on it.