It was a lovely late evening and we were having dinner on bed with a romantic movie (notebook, which she had not seen ) suddenly she started crying and asked me "why don't you bring flowers for me any more?".

I was bit surprised and replied that recently there hasn't been an occasion to bring one so I didn't but if you want I will get one.
Then she got angry and told "Only when I tell, you will bring??"

My night got ruined and I didn't know what to reply or say.
So was it the movie or the un-occasional flower which got me in trouble??

An old Irish folk song ....
He remembers the first time he met her
He remembered the first thing she said
He remembered the first time he held her
And the night that she came to his bed.

He remembers her sweet way of sayin'
Honey has something gone wrong
He remembered the fun and the teasin'
And the reason he wrote her this song.

Chorus:
I'll give you a daisy a day dear
I'll give you a daisy a day
I'll love you until the rivers run still
And the four winds we know blow away.

They would walk down the street in the evening
And for years I would see them go by
And their love that was more than the clothes that they wore
Could be seen in the gleam in their eyes.

As a kid they would take me for candy
And I'd love to go taggin' along
We'd hold hands while we walked the corner
And the old man would sing her this song.

Chorus:
I'll give you a daisy a day dear
I'll give you a daisy a day
I'll love you until the rivers run still
And the four winds we know blow away.

Now he walks down the street in the evening
And he stops by the old candy store
And I somehow believe he's believin'
He's holdin' her hand like before.

For he feels all her love walkin' with him
And he smiles at the things she might say
Then the old man walks up to the hill top
And gives her a daisy a day.

Chorus:
I'll give you a daisy a day dear
I'll give you a daisy a day
I'll love you until the rivers run still
And the four winds we know blow away...


Well jimmy ... It is unfair of her to compare you with the fantasy world of movie land .. Especially when it comes to romance .. . But ultimately I think it is your response that got you in to trouble ... Now if you Send her flowers especiallt while she is angry .. She will feel it is not because you want to but because you have to . Perhaps do something different.. It need not cost money ... .. Run her a bath with candles and rose petals in the water . Surprise her with a dessert with pretty edible flowers .. I am sure you can be creative :-)

If she is not high maintenance why did she ask and why are you on the couch?
Doesn't add up to me?
Look for other signs to what is actually going on.

Your night got ruined? Got you in trouble?

Grow a set of balls. Go to the kitchen, make a sandwich, flip on ESPN sports on the big screen and tell her to stay where she is,(watching her movie on her tablet in the bedroom), and to stop in and see you when she grows up a bit.

I think I would have handled this so different.. I would have taken it as something to do with the movie...

I would have been flippant in my response..

Something like Well hells bells when are you gonna bring me some??


And as far as bringing someone flowers... If it is expected I would'nt do it.
Flowers while very nice aren't mandatory..

I dated someone without fail had a bouquet delivered once a week in a pretty wicker basket.. Yanno what???? didn't mean a thing since I knew he had his secretary do the ordering... I did thank her for them weekly...

Now if he picks me flowers and brings them to me that will say a lot...
Or surprise me with them.. big difference.

How did it ruin the night?
I think I would have been leaving her in the bedroom, and went and turned on football...

Well she was angry and if I had slept with her then it would have been hard for me to control and sorry for using the word couch, it was another bedroom. Yeah I am trying to remember and I don't want to call her but give her a surprise by going there and doing something different asap.

Hahaha I guess I am that strong or strict person plus she is very sensitive gal who will get hard with that kind of action. I need to take it in a cool and loving way

It's a two way thing.
What does she do for you?
Expecting things It's a no no no for me.
I spell needy. I can't be bothered with someone who just wants wants.
I see user when that happens.
Sorry Jimmy but that's what I see.

"Do you still give flowers un-occasionally?"

Only when the neighbor's flowers are in full bloom

Cool & loving is fine.. when your not being played.. and you are being played.

flowers die v quickly once they are picked.
what is this with women and their flower desire?!
so meaningless.
once a year at a special occasion, okay.. but more than that is ..waste of those beauties..

My thought exactly but gals here have their own logic so need to play along. Anyway right now searching for a way to make it good in a different way