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Topic: how do you know when a man is just bored or serious
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Thu 10/06/16 05:41 PM

Hi skeptical .. I would take out the last few sentences of your profile especially the cam comment .. Perhaps men are doing exactly that establishing a connection hoping to cam .
I think your profile name is cute .. And I do not think it will attract the wrong men . Your photos are lovely and your profile appears genuine . There are many men who are not here for dating .. Just for fun .. Your job is to be selective in who you give your time to . :-)

hello there i think you are one of the wittiest ladies here i am glad youre giving me some advice. so its like i am challenging those men to see if they can change my mind :joy:

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Thu 10/06/16 05:43 PM


there were a few who would say they are sincere and that they are giving their time but then after a week they just deactivate their account :rolling_eyes: just when i am about to believe them they disappear
There is an old sales persons meme that says

Once you can fake sincerity you have it made.

So there is a clue there.
Personally I like your chat name.

Your profile has a bit to say about what you don't want which tends to be negative and wont do much about stopping the sales person type.
In fact they will just use that information along with the stuff you say you do want to create the image that they think will get them what they want.

Yes it is frustrating but that's why you have to match words with actions and take the time to see past pretence.

I'm the only real good guy that Ive meet here.pitchfork rofl :angel:




how would you re word my profile then? :thinking:

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Thu 10/06/16 05:44 PM

I don't think there is anything wrong with the user name,

And to make you feel a little better, MANY of the accounts that get deactivated are because they are scammers, and have been reported.

This site has an issue with scammers signing up, but the mods do their best to get rid of them as quickly as possible, and if they are reported and looking into the accounts get deactivated.

So if someone deactivates their account on you, don't take personally, it most likely was someone that was playing you from the start.

I would say the BEST way to meet someone genuine from this site is through the forums, sure there are some that don't participate...but generally the ones who are at least semi-regular posters are real.

Good Luck in your search!

thanks a lot i feel so much better already... glad to know there are people like you here

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Sat 10/08/16 11:57 AM

If a man is interested... They give you the most precious thing of all
Time...
They spend time getting to know you...
They aren't in a all fired hurry...

They are interested in "YOU" simply you getting to know you...


Most people say things and mean them and yet there are some that their actions speak volumes of something else.

I tend to stick with the ones that say and do the same things.

this ...:thumbsup:

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Sun 10/09/16 01:17 AM


If a man is interested... They give you the most precious thing of all
Time...
They spend time getting to know you...
They aren't in a all fired hurry...

They are interested in "YOU" simply you getting to know you...


Most people say things and mean them and yet there are some that their actions speak volumes of something else.

I tend to stick with the ones that say and do the same things.

this ...:thumbsup:

:thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:

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Sun 10/09/16 12:49 PM

thanks peggy i guess ill give it a go for a month or so then just move on:sunglasses: thanks again sweety
Got a song for you to listen to. Another day to run ~ Bill Withers.

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Sun 10/09/16 03:13 PM


thanks peggy i guess ill give it a go for a month or so then just move on:sunglasses: thanks again sweety
Got a song for you to listen to. Another day to run ~ Bill Withers.

..ok i thinlk ill walk :thinking: thanks

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Sun 10/09/16 03:13 PM


thanks peggy i guess ill give it a go for a month or so then just move on:sunglasses: thanks again sweety
Got a song for you to listen to. Another day to run ~ Bill Withers.

..ok i thinlk ill walk :thinking: thanks

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