I am a bit disappointed in todays women. I have left messages for several women on this site who are looking for someone to share their time with and over 80% of the messages i've sent out have not even been read.I reaslize that we are living in a world where it's hard to find someone to mesh with because we all have had our share of relationship dissappoinments but life is not all about rain, the sun can only nuture the hearts of those who absorb the the rays of positive dreams and thoughts.Lawrence B Harrell

Not all of us are that rude to ignore a message. However, maybe some of us have become 'gun shy'. I recently responded to an email expressing interest to tell him that I wasn't sure we'd be compatible based on his profile & interest in military things because I'm very anti-war (something that wasn't highlighted in my profile). The response I got was extremely hostile & included personal attacks just because I had pointed out a potential problem. If you get a few responses like that, you might decide not to respond too.

I reply to my mail..........

somebody told me u were lookin 4 me well here i go

hey love quest i like the positive attitude, three replies to your post, already things are lookin up for ya! stay positive brother!

just keep on smiling and sending on positive energy and eventually you will receive the responses that you hope for. be good! punk0027

Today's men can be just as rude... I know life gets busy. But a reply-even if only to say 'thanks but I'm not interested' is better than nothing.
The cream will rise to the top! and Don't worry about the ones who are rude; they are not all they think they are in the first place...