If there are 15 women wanting to meet me, what is stopping them from sending me a message? Why do I need to pay money to see who they are?

Those 15 women had clicked yes to you as a possible match. Nothing to stop
them from sending you a message, IF they want to. So, if you haven't heard
from them, perhaps they are still thinking about it.



You don't need to but, that is the only way of finding out who said
yes to you.

However, you can be proactive and do MutualMatch yourself.

What is MutualMatch?
Instead of having you manually search for people, we show you singles who live near you. You simply click Yes, No, Or Maybe to tell us which ones you're interested in.

We let those people know you're interested. If they also click Yes, then you're added to each other's match lists.

On a related issue, at least one member stated that when he upgraded, the blurred-out images of people wanting to meet him disappeared. Has this happened to anyone else? If this is normal it just be a false tease by Mingle2 to get the extra income.