I am new to this and very skeptical. ok guess because I am old fashioned about the whole dating thing

If you are mature. know how to post at least six photos to accurately reflect your physical presence, write a narrative that is informative, defines what you seek in a partner, what your current life style consists of, what your hobbies and personal preferences are you are now half done. Next be able to peruse hundreds and yes I mean hundreds of profiles to meet a gentleman of your choice as many here are not as they seem ( less narrative, inarticulate, five word responses, lack of grammar, sexual innuendo and other inane comments and you are in the running. Of the four sites I currently enjoy this is the least likely to generate a matching female for me perhaps you will have better luck I would encourage more than one dating site and preferably one that at least requires payment as many do not have funds to date much less to join lol

pretty much. That's just the fine print.

You are very beautiful