Topic: Just coming back form work got upset by my manager pls can a
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Sat 09/10/16 04:52 AM
Edited by dgame22 on Sat 09/10/16 04:57 AM
My manager got me upset at work am just ****ing tired every day same **** pls can anyone talk to me

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Sat 09/10/16 05:01 AM
Sounds like he's enjoying getting you upset. Maybe you get upset easily... Don't give him/her the satisfaction of ruining your day. Be sure that when he/she goes home h/s isn't even thinking about you. Is your manager THAT important to you that you have to take his sh! home with you?

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Sat 09/10/16 05:23 AM

That's exactly what i have been trying to figure out if truly she fines pleasure making me upset am just ****ing tired i think something is going wrong somewhere
Sounds like he's enjoying getting you upset. Maybe you get upset easily... Don't give him/her the satisfaction of ruining your day. Be sure that when he/she goes home h/s isn't even thinking about you. Is your manager THAT important to you that you have to take his sh! home with you?


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Sat 09/10/16 05:30 AM

Yesh of course she is but this one is becoming unbearable to be honest


I'm kind and gentle but extremely short-tempered

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So its your manager.. heh

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Sat 09/10/16 06:23 AM


Yesh of course she is but this one is becoming unbearable to be honest


I'm kind and gentle but extremely short-tempered

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So its your manager.. heh

Seek a counselor and learn how to control your temper as others can only do so with your permission but you feel that others should not make you angry but it is you who choose to respond with anger and not another response.. Blaming others for ones feelings is a way to stay immature and not be in charge of ones feelings so I hope you get help and learn how to prevent others from having control over your feelings..

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Sat 09/10/16 06:36 AM

Thanks bro the truth is that i hardly complain even when am hurt but is just that at times it's good to talk so that people won't take the advantage of quietness to moles you





Yesh of course she is but this one is becoming unbearable to be honest


I'm kind and gentle but extremely short-tempered

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So its your manager.. heh

Seek a counselor and learn how to control your temper as others can only do so with your permission but you feel that others should not make you angry but it is you who choose to respond with anger and not another response.. Blaming others for ones feelings is a way to stay immature and not be in charge of ones feelings so I hope you get help and learn how to prevent others from having control over your feelings..

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Sat 09/10/16 12:04 PM
Sounds like he's enjoying getting you upset. Maybe you get upset easily... Don't give him/her the satisfaction of ruining your day. Be sure that when he/she goes home h/s isn't even thinking about you. Is your manager THAT important to you that you have to take his sh! home with you?




That's exactly what i have been trying to figure out if truly she fines pleasure making me upset am just ****ing tired i think something is going wrong somewhere


Have a frank discussion with her. Sit down and ask her to tell you what the problem is and what you can do to fix it. Obviously she blames you for something and it might even be a misunderstanding. In my experience, issues arise when opportunities lack to have an open discussion about work expectations. Stay polite and focused on solving the issues.


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Sat 09/10/16 01:28 PM

Sounds like he's enjoying getting you upset. Maybe you get upset easily... Don't give him/her the satisfaction of ruining your day. Be sure that when he/she goes home h/s isn't even thinking about you. Is your manager THAT important to you that you have to take his sh! home with you?




That's exactly what i have been trying to figure out if truly she fines pleasure making me upset am just ****ing tired i think something is going wrong somewhere


Have a frank discussion with her. Sit down and ask her to tell you what the problem is and what you can do to fix it. Obviously she blames you for something and it might even be a misunderstanding. In my experience, issues arise when opportunities lack to have an open discussion about work expectations. Stay polite and focused on solving the issues.





Wow bro thanks a lot for the enlightenment it's good to hear from an elderly one am gonna do as you said

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Sat 09/10/16 07:20 PM
Had a good paying job once as an environmental inspector for a construction company. I got tired of constantly be told to go "F" myself when I informed them we were out of compliance and then getting blamed when the project was getting fined for the things I had already told them about. I now clean restrooms and make a fraction of what I was making but I'm 100 times happier.

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Sun 09/11/16 01:21 AM

Had a good paying job once as an environmental inspector for a construction company. I got tired of constantly be told to go "F" myself when I informed them we were out of compliance and then getting blamed when the project was getting fined for the things I had already told them about. I now clean restrooms and make a fraction of what I was making but I'm 100 times happier.



That's just it man it's not by being paid 10000& why ever day brainstorming at the jobside because of some **** you don't even know about it's better you received little but yet happy