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Topic: How do u feel about sharing your password with your partner?
babykris6c's photo
Mon 08/29/16 11:00 AM

How do you feel about sharing your password with your partner?


SitkaRains's photo
Mon 08/29/16 11:03 AM
No problem Pancho has mine.

babykris6c's photo
Mon 08/29/16 11:03 AM
Awww Rains :heart:

no problem with me too

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 08/29/16 11:08 AM
Yes he has all my email accounts passwords, the only one he doesn't is work email acct. And Financials lol.
Gosh I gave him that info about 15 months ago.
No secrets.

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Mon 08/29/16 11:09 AM
It depends. Having been married to someone who was periodically prone to very nasty delusions, giving her the ability to sign on to my computer and buy things in my name, or send emails to my place of work as though it's me, isn't a good thing.

Until I went through that, I too would have said yes to this, because I know that I would never abuse the knowledge.

babykris6c's photo
Mon 08/29/16 11:18 AM
Happy to hear Rains. That you're free, with no secrets in your relationship. :heart: Isn't that how it should always be?

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Mon 08/29/16 11:44 AM
I think it's better to have a joint account that is shared, along with that password, but if a user has their own account, then that password is theirs...

The issue to me is not so much is the password shared but is the information behind the password shared which is a bigger issue in my book. And this carries from social to financial to email etc.

But work account are never shared, work is work and does not include the spouse, unless you both own the business.

My two cents...

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Mon 08/29/16 12:25 PM


The issue to me is not so much is the password shared but is the information behind the password shared which is a bigger issue in my book. And this carries from social to financial to email etc.

But work account are never shared, work is work and does not include the spouse, unless you both own the business.

My two cents...


I second that ..

babykris6c's photo
Mon 08/29/16 01:04 PM
nice to know how men feel about sharing their password..

Annierooroo's photo
Mon 08/29/16 01:31 PM
I don't have a problem because I have nothing to hide.

If he wants I would gladly give it to him.

Being open and honest in a relationship is the best way to go.

Annierooroo's photo
Mon 08/29/16 01:34 PM

It depends. Having been married to someone who was periodically prone to very nasty delusions, giving her the ability to sign on to my computer and buy things in my name, or send emails to my place of work as though it's me, isn't a good thing.

Until I went through that, I too would have said yes to this, because I know that I would never abuse the knowledge.


It's Sad to say you get people like that.
If that happened he would be kicked to the curb. That is abusing the trust thing.


Burakotw's photo
Mon 08/29/16 01:48 PM
Good :thumbsup_tone1:

babykris6c's photo
Mon 08/29/16 01:53 PM

I don't have a problem because I have nothing to hide.

If he wants I would gladly give it to him.

Being open and honest in a relationship is the best way to go.



Annie :heart: :heart:


Jimmy_roy's photo
Mon 08/29/16 02:19 PM
Well some passwords are shareable and some are not so accordingly I have a book which contains those shareable passwords which she has total access to read and use. I never ask her passwords because it is none of my business.

no1phD's photo
Mon 08/29/16 02:23 PM
Nope not me!.. that's my personal business... you have to trust me or you don't.... I would never look at your phone or go through your belongings..
Nor do I care to.... I believe innocence is bliss..lol.... in my mind that is like reading someone's Personal Diary..
... it's like Vegas What's Done in Vegas should stay in Vegas..lol

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Mon 08/29/16 07:40 PM

Nope not me!.. that's my personal business... you have to trust me or you don't.... I would never look at your phone or go through your belongings..
Nor do I care to.... I believe innocence is bliss..lol.... in my mind that is like reading someone's Personal Diary..
... it's like Vegas What's Done in Vegas should stay in Vegas..lol


Only when the crabs make the trip back from Vegas do you realize trust is over and it's time to find a new woman...

rofl rofl rofl rofl

Lexizbill's photo
Mon 08/29/16 07:47 PM
It cool if your not hiding anything from him or her

TMommy's photo
Mon 08/29/16 07:51 PM
had no issues with it when I was married

if he had a need to go look at anything I posted on facebook or where ever..

he could


all our passwords were written down on a notecard by the desk

our accounts were joint, both our names on mortgage

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Mon 08/29/16 08:13 PM
How do you feel about sharing your password with your partner?

Depends on my partner. Depends on what I know about them.

Some people have problems with self control.

I mean I've dated people that had debt issues, and women that were kinda shopaholics.

I wouldn't just willy nilly share passwords to certain bank accounts or retirement funds with them, even if married, any more than I would fully stock a liquor cabinet and put it next to her nightstand.

For important passwords and things I would keep an envelope with passwords and keys for them in case of my death. With a lawyer, or in a safe, or in a safety deposit box, they can access on my death.

I'm not foolish enough (I hope) to believe I can imagine my ideal partner as perfect with nothing but good intentions and no personality whatsoever except altruistic advancement of my happiness and peace of mind.

So, it depends on the partner.


I wouldn't have some kind of ceremony with incense, candles, Dido playing in the background, and flower petals scattered about so we could have a "talk" about sharing passwords as the next "Step" in the relationship.

Annierooroo's photo
Mon 08/29/16 08:14 PM


Nope not me!.. that's my personal business... you have to trust me or you don't.... I would never look at your phone or go through your belongings..
Nor do I care to.... I believe innocence is bliss..lol.... in my mind that is like reading someone's Personal Diary..
... it's like Vegas What's Done in Vegas should stay in Vegas..lol


Only when the crabs make the trip back from Vegas do you realize trust is over and it's time to find a new woman...

rofl rofl rofl rofl


laugh
Ewwwe bro please don't share those.
Best keep to yourself. For a solution go to Dr Google or would you like me to look for you?
Herbal or chemical?
winking

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