Spur was suspended also....he should have been banned thugh! He was abusive and way out of line and this is not the first itme that he has resorted sexual inuendos because he was threatened by the intelligents of a woman.

There's still several people, especially in CE and Religion Chat, who are especially confrontational, and yet, nothing's ever said about THEM. And those individuals know EXACTLY who they are.

- Spur was banned, not suspended. His remarks were way over the line.
- If people are being abusive in CE or Religion Chat, use the report abuse button and let us know. We address every abuse report that's sent in and investigate it. If people are violating the rules, they'll be warned, suspended, or banned depending on the violation and their past history.
- bl8ant was warned several times in the past about not attacking other users. I specifically emailed her previously stating that one more rule violation would result in a ban. Then she made posts like this:

"could tell you havn't been laid in a long time


and your education is lacking


and your mother probably ditched you , because you have no grace with women.... hmmm


a looser good luck with that"

"fuk yourself too dearie"


When we deliver a punishment on the site, there are many factors that come into play. Almost all of the time, if a ban or suspension is issued, it's not for that one incident, but the result of several incidents.

I am not typically going to discuss what punishments we deliver on the site. That is a private matter between us and the member in question. But I want to make it clear that we don't act without cause, and we treat all fairly and with respect. If you see us take an action that you think is unfair, there is almost always much more to the story than what you are seeing.

I think a lot of the threads hae gone overboard lately. Its sad to see good people get caught in the middle bad things, but maybe we all should think a little more about what just happened and maybe we all could try a little harder to get along with people, and if we can not, then we should steer clear of that/those threads.

I personally make it a point to stay away from political and religion threads because I know I have my opinions and that they differ from others.

Debates are always a good thing, but everyone involved has to be mature enough to be able to handle it.

JMO

Ok.....what did I miss??

OMG...where is Lee!!!!

Mikes rules don't allow a free debate here best to ignore it and go play silly buggers, it seems the best way to remove you from dramas

there has been a lot of heated debate

the thing is

you can not make it personal

Those particular threads were getting pretty warm, but we usually take care of them ourselves. Then we agree we have different opinions and go on, to another topic. We are all adults here and most of the time we act it. Weeeellll, anyway, we try. I only saw one that was waaaaaay out of line. The other few , well, we always work it out. Some of us came here from other places and know each other pretty well. We are men and women, what do we expect? I mean...look at the divorce rate. We are not any different.
But, in all fairness, I did not see that much wrong with jess and gyps's posts. It was waaaay after they would not shut up that the girls began to speak up.
Is it really logical to think we are not going to get into arguments? Sometimes it lets us see different views that we would not have taken the time to do before.

I miss Jess, and Alex, and gypsy. It doesnt feel like home.
I'm lonely.....

To my girls...
Hiccuuup..

Yes...I also have to hold my tongue the best I can. Sometimes I slide. I am just as bad.
I apologize if I offended anyone.
Kat

Mike...thank you for giving us the heads up.
Great site. Almost like home. We really do appreciate you and Van.

Kat

kat

i am offended

let go of that tongue

You baaack!?? Tongue? My tongue? Your tongue?
Careful buddy, your talkin my language there.
Kat

tongue in cheek

question is

whos cheek

I LIKE THIS SITE, IF YOU DONT, LEAVE, SIMPLE AS

debbie what is up

hope all is well

Don't worry about me leaving, Debbie .

I like this site--and the people on it. Even the ones who are antagonistic.

HI ADJ4U

IM OK THANKS, APART FROM FALLING OUT OF BED AGAIN LAST NIGHT LOL

HOW ARE YOU??

Where is the sticking tongue out icon Adj? Twenty of them coming your way.

I like this site too.
Home sweet home.
Kat

HI ROB

I KNOW YOU LIKE THIS SITE BABE

IT JUST ANNOYS ME WHEN PEOPLE WHINE ABOUT THIS SITE, WHEN THERE FREE TO LEAVE.

YOU CANT LEAVE, I WONT LET YA!!!

Hugs ya Deb.
What in the heck are you doin in that bed to be fallin out all the time?

Kat