Topic: What Should I do?????????
Amberdee29045's photo
Fri 11/09/07 09:47 PM
I just recieved a letter from an ex that my parents do NOT like. I told him we would stay friends, and I'm still a little bruised from the break up myself, just like he seems to be. Should I write him back???? To clarify things a little, the break up was mutual.

steppenwulf26's photo
Fri 11/09/07 09:49 PM
I sound exactly like your boyfriend, lol. if you write him back make it EXTREMELY clear whether you want to be with him or not.

Drew07_2's photo
Fri 11/09/07 09:50 PM
If you agreed to stay friends, then his writing shouldn't be that odd. As for whether or not you should write him back, well I think that is a call that only you can make.

Good luck!

Drew

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Fri 11/09/07 09:50 PM
How long has it been since you guys split up? Unless it has been 100 years, i say bag it. He's an ex for a reason.

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Fri 11/09/07 09:52 PM
that depends on what he wrote you & if you actually feel like you want to.

if he's askin for somethin more than you feel comfortable with since the break-up then no.

if it's just friendly banter then go ahead since it was a mutual break-up.

berlysgotgrrr's photo
Fri 11/09/07 09:55 PM
i say go for it...your parents feelings shouldnt control who you want to be friends with

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Fri 11/09/07 09:57 PM
I agree with ya cbfraser775, bag it and and fling him over the fence where the rest of the tossers are hahabigsmile

For love, I don't understand why most think of giving their ex's another go. Is it the sex, or you think he is the only man left on earth for you? noway noway happy

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Fri 11/09/07 09:59 PM
Glad you got my back, sin! There's a huge problem with ex sex that no one ever thinks about - if it's good, you're bummed because you don't get to have it anymore. If it's bad, you're bummed cuz you just had sex with an ex. It's lose/lose.

Amberdee29045's photo
Fri 11/09/07 10:02 PM
Not gonna try to renew the relationship to that level. It was love, but towards the end, I didn't put up with the bullcrap anymore. (He quit drinkin right after we met, but started back right before we broke up. It's the main cause.)

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Fri 11/09/07 10:09 PM
good luck with that, good thing hes not a murderer,lol

Amberdee29045's photo
Fri 11/09/07 10:10 PM
And no, I don't do the ex-sex thing. So humiliating and degrading, I think.

Amberdee29045's photo
Fri 11/09/07 10:12 PM
lol maxx....when he's drunk he makes you wonder tho....I think I'm gonna figure out if he's still drinking and then make the decision on the friendship.

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Fri 11/09/07 10:29 PM
wise choice to check first, good thing hes not an arsonist,lol.hopi spelt that right,lol.

Amberdee29045's photo
Fri 11/09/07 10:31 PM
lol, i know for sure he's not an arsonist......he uses his lighters to light those cigarrettes with!!

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Fri 11/09/07 10:37 PM
It was mutual, but he is an ex for a reason. Remember why he is an ex. Then remember that you are basically the same person that you were before you broke up.
He is basically the same person that HE was before you broke up. Any questions?

Amberdee29045's photo
Fri 11/09/07 10:39 PM
HUUUUUUUUUH? yeah i think i'm goin to bed.....i can't see straight...but keep the posts comin!!

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Fri 11/09/07 10:46 PM
I think you still love him why you are considering his friendship ...rolling eyes in me head till I go dizzy or am I just dwunk on Adelaide water haha bigsmile bigsmile

dizzydean5's photo
Fri 11/09/07 11:23 PM
yes let him no its over and stand your ground