Should go back with ex or not?

To be honest:

If you have to ask... the answer is 'NO'.
(Because you obviously, have doubts or reasons, to not be with him).

An EX is an EX for a reason.

Don't let the familiar or loneliness or boredom trap you.

Hope this helps. Good luck to you. 

No

Never move backwards in life. Always move forward.

thanks for ur reply maybe what u said is right..coz somehow i still hv feeling for him and its been 5 months but i cant forget him
maybe i cant move on till i get a new one?

thanks

Now that some of the men bashers have posted.



It depends on many things such as....

Why are you apart now?

Did someone cheat? Was it you?

Does he treat you well?

Do you care / love him?

Have you been on a temporary break?

Etc, etc, etc



But, in the end don't take other's advice.
Listen to your inner voice. Most of the time it's telling you what's best for you.

look at the red flags.... look at the positives... if there is more than one flag to 10 positives, move on... one flag can be worked with, only if he's willing to work on it. Take a beat for a bit out on your own and watch him to see if he's doing it, then consider your outcome into the future...

anymore flags than one flag, you have yourself a misery storm a comin with too many groceries that are past the fresh date.


I say enjoy your youth, and don't be tied up with anyone... Travel, and do YOUR projects, and they will come to you at your time, and evaluate then...


also, get the book, "Never be Lied To Again", by David Leiberman. this really works.


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I wouldn't advise that.. that is kind of like a goldfish dying, so you run out & get another, because you have a bowl.


Take time for yourself & be good to yourself. Be your own best friend.

And ask yourself, " Is it him?", or "Is it the IDEA of a relationship you miss?".

Remember.. ' We love the illusion oc what we thought.... we had '

Wtf!? There is no men bashing on this thread.

Some of us don't think life is a Disney movie. Or just because a guy pays attention to us.. we should be gratful or assume he is the one.

Read, her opening statement... she is NOT talking about the reasons for the break up.
And we don"t need to know why... it was 5 months ago... gee.. should she wear black mourning clothes for a year & cry ?

Sure.
Why not.
What is your alternative?
Lurk on a dating site, start vague forum threads?
A potentially emotionally dysfunctional relationship is probably better for you than internet addiction.

WTF! WTF! Okay one more time for fun.... WTF!

In a Disney Movie, the guy would come back and sweep her off her feet and music would play. That was quite an exaggerated leap. Glad to see your imagination still works.

I merely said, not to listen to others with ulterior motives stemming from their possibly bad experiences. Instead she should listen to herself. As in, only she can make the right decision for herself. Getting advice from others can detract her from her own thoughts.

All the women above my original post said to NOT go back with him based solely on the OPS question of "Should go back with ex or not?"

So, I made a decision, based on the facts at hand, there must be some bias. It could have been that all the above have had bad relationships in the past, failed reconnections, or maybe just wanted to do some hating on the male conter-part. I decided the later as it makes for better reading.

Many people, including myself, have gotten back together after time apart. Sometimes years. Sometimes after another has gotten out of another marriage. Time isn't a factor.

Penthouse forum suggests that you have a 42% chance of success at having a meaningful relationship. Bright side is that they say you will have a 88% increase in sexual activity within the first two months of getting back together. Hey....the science of Penthouse doesn't lie.

There you go! Thank you sir! 100% Proof of everything I said!

Just gotta get those "facts" out there.

Definitely No..

Too many variables not listed here to really give a fair opinion6.
If there was cheating involved....probably not

If it was a lot of miss communicationsomething maybe.

If out of loneliness probably not a good idea.

I was wondering who will offer that for this thread...good job