Do you think people are clickish on here? In life do we just click with some people and not others?

Yep

I am not sure about the proverbial cliques, I think it is more that we tend to gravitate to people we have things in common with. Whether age, belief's, how long we have been on the site, life experiences etc...

On here I have a wide range of friends that I chat with privately, I have a wide range that I play on the game threads with and then others on other forums kind of like real life.


Do I think that it can be yes... I tend to shy away from cliques and the clique mentality. I prefer to float

I agree with you. Especially the gravitate part. I think we pull towards people we have commonalities with. I don't like to exclude people at all. There maybe people I do not like by how they portray themselves, but I try to walk a fine line with it or ignore it.

Do you ever feel excluded? If so, why?

^^^^^ See another reason why I like you.. We both have that in common..
There are some I dont' really care for their online persona and since I dont' have a clue what they are "really" like in real life I don't trash or think badly of them. I tend to shy away.

Also if there is someone out here that is driving me bat shyt crazy I have to take a look at me and wonder who pist in my cheerios that morning. To have a complete stranger affect me so much.

I say yes to both your questions.

I'm always interested in chatting with people, but it's rare that people respond when I reach out. There are a few I've been able to connect with.

I think we all have those that we gravitate towards.

Thank you for your input topher.

yep

think it was worse when I joined

I like you to rains wanna go on a date? Just kidding lol. But yeah some days I am not in the best of moods and take things based on how I feel sometimes. Its always great to take a look at one self too.

I've never felt like I've been purposely excluded. I'm good with myself I just let things happen. If I click with someone cool if not its cool. I don't like everyone. I don't expect everyone to like me.

Hi Tmommy I love you. I remember back in the just say hi forum. Yeah it took them a bit to warm up to new people back then. I think it was more to get a feel for the newcomers as we do have to be careful when online.

Great view RCB

You're welcome, Sea. I learned a long time ago that I'm not one of the "cool" kids, and I have no desire to be.

You are loved by me, Trish!

You are so sweet Lu, how could anyone not love you.

And you are very kind and sweet to everyone! God Bless you always.

hahaha..thanks my friend, just being honest

I keep clicking the buttons on my computer mouse. Does that count?

People are cliquish everywhere.

People inherently seek out to join or form groups, try to grow and expand groups, vie for dominance or secure position in the group, use their groups to fulfill selfish purpose.

That's just human nature.


"Click" shortcuts a huge ongoing process.

Might as well ask "In life do some people just have kids and others don't?"