is this normal?
or should i be hurt?

i never really had a girl cheat on me or hurt me so much before
and if it did i dont think i be sad or pist off
cause i know dat deserve better

anyone else in tha same position and confused?

im really tha sweet type of guy, but why would a girl like hurt tha guy who is truly there for them?

and how come i hear or see others guys get dumped or heartbroken by girls?

Sorry to hear you got hurt...
Welcome to the real world- it happens to even the best of people.
Dust yourself off and keep going- you deserve better.

I agree with MsTeddy...

We ALL wind up getting HURT at one point in our lives. To me, it is a learning experience hopefully that you won't forget. We have all been there, just know that even though it truly HURTS, it will get better...

Sorry to hear you got hurt...
Welcome to the real world- it happens to even the best of people.
Dust yourself off and keep going- you deserve better.
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um...
did you read wat i said
i said i DID NOT get hurt
not did

You are very fortunate to not have been hurt. Maybe you keep your heart under lock and key. You'll never find anything that lasts if you don't open your heart!

actually no im totally such a hopeless romantic
but i believe my love is just too good for some girl to hurt me
and if they keep sayin to me they wont ever hurt a guy
how come they do?
lol

i just dont get it
why must guys who are loving and sweet and tha real deal be mislead or used?
and in tha end hurt?
why cant some girls open their eyes to see who is for real?

i still havent been hurt
to a point of not wantin to be with another girl
i believe this pain is nothing to me now
and mny girls keep sayin i deserve better
so yea i know i do, but everywhere i go other guys are hurt

and these girls arent even bad??

You did not get hurt?

Guess your question confused me...

Hate to say it...but your time will come....it does for all of us.

yes i did not get hurt

and i feel like i suppose to
i even sometimes feel like i should just be told im an asshole
but really im such a loving guy
is this how some girls treat us nice guys?
like were just those assholes?

You asked why do nice guys get hurt....

If you find that answer, I beg you to let me know 1st!

this is my mission in life bro
im dedicated to find out tha real answer to this lol

we always hurt the ones we love...sad but true...

let me know when you find the answer

I'd like to know too

Nice guys get hurt because they give their hearts away too easily.

Caris, I'm the same way. I thought I was the only one.

If you have never been hurt before ....then u havent really been in love before because love actually hurts....its when u dont love that person is when it doesnt hurt...

I have never experienced a "cheater" either, well not that I know of I guess. Don't wish it...I have seen mates that experienced it and it turned their life upside down especially ones that had long term commitments witht heir so called partners.

Jeez..i hope my last post made sense...

Caris, I'm the same way. I thought I was the only one.
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high five!!!!!!

yah man i wont let a girl hurt me lol
and if she does i will gain more love for myself

but still hasnt happened yet and i prevent it from happening too