those of u who have been on here long enough know that jeff and i are going through a very rough patch right now, and unfortunately there has been in the last few days a lot of suspicions and finger pointing going on in the form of reading each others emails and accusations being made about me being to flirty and then finding out he's been accusing me only to find he's hiding a couple of innapropriate activities from me and so forth. things like i saw what u posted about me in the forums and what was that implying and all kinds of immature nonsense. so, for the sake of our deciding to try to work things out for not only our own sakes (cus we believe there is something there worth saving)but also the sake of our kids, our sanity, and especially for the sake of builiding trust back, we are both going to be deactivating our profiles for a couple of months, until which point in time we feel that our relationship is solid enough to get back into this community without the fear and suspicions of who's been talking to who and why. i hope that all my friends understand there is nothing they have done wrong and this site is wonderful. and i hope to be back in here posting my fantastical nonsense with in a few months refreshed and renewed and healed.

i love u all very very very very much.

love
heather rae

Take care Heather. Never talked much but I did enjoy reading and your visits to the Pub were always fun.

I didn't know heather!

Hurry back and good luck. I am sure you guys can work things out.

thank u karma and nerves

Heather & Jeff, Good luck & think with your hearts.
I've read enough of your posts to see the love you guys had, so just rekindle it!!

thanks catch we're really gonna try. he still lives in seattle so its conna be a month or 2 before i even see him. i just hope he makes it for chaunakah

I am sure that everything will work out for you Heather. Enjoy the time you have with your man and use every form of communication that you can think of. Have a great day.

Hope everything works out for the best for you both.

oh gee, more drama and I missed it. I never heard a word. G ood luck 2 u both, and don't stay away 2 long or you will miss all the action on JSH. Bye

oh sweetie, im so gonna miss you. you're my friend heather since the beginning and i will keep you in my prayers. i love you and will miss you but i know you need this time. i hope everything works out.

Heather you guys do what you need to do for you both...

what a smart thing to do.... didn't know and I am sorry... but it sounds like your on the right track and your being very smart about this ... good luck

Don't really know you heatherae, but I read you.
Good luck with your renewing of faith and trust in each other. No reason it can't work out if you both are true to each other.
Hugs
Kat

heather, i think the two of you have made a wise decision. working on the relationship is very important, and if leaving JSH for a while is what it takes to get the relationship back on track by all means, go for it. best of luck to both of you. you will be missed.
Becca

thank u everyone.
i will miss u.
i hope it wont be too long.

bye for now.

Hurry back!

bye

good luck

Be well, Heather....

And remember the miracle of Chanukah. And find the Miracle of the Latkes to read to your little ones.

Hugs, M

I so understand and wish you the best
but you knew that...