Looking for some guidance back into the real world, spent such a long time in a relationship that moved backwards 2 steps for every 1 step we went forward...

7 years* sorry

I just lost a 7 MONTH relationship.
It SEEMS to me that we males have a broken heart for a long time after a young lady choses to end what was a great relationship.
It is sad that many people end a relationship over minor disagreements and yet SAY they want to be with you for over.
It would just be nice to be liked and loved by someone means what we says.

Get on your feet get moving forward instead of thinking backwards and things may turn out better than you thought they could. No crying in your cheerios

Long time in relationship. Keep busy and take some time off from dating. Find safe people to confide in that can help sort out the emotions.

Ive gotten over 2 long term relationships, all I can say is reclaim your life. Sometimes we can loose ourselves over the years, too much "us", not enough "me". Go back and remember the things you might have left behind for the sake of your relationship and reclaim them. Think about the things you wanted to do but didn't for the sake of your relationship and start them now. The most important thing of all, the only relationship you should be looking to have is with yourself.Be selfish, now is a good time for that.

Well said and great advice!