Why is mingle so hard to find someone

in just few days, badly much scammers and fake ppl was cross my way

I thought this topic was about something else

It was originally some type of chat room.
And also the word ' international ' confuses newcomers. They think most are here to date ' internationly '. Ugh...

There are lots of sites out there. Paid & free. With & without forums & ones that specialize in one thing or another.

Each one is good for something. I use this one for forums.


Good luck to you.

A lil blue pill?

So that's what I need huh...

I have found lots of people here... Post a little more and you will find them too.

Hopefully one will be what you are really looking for...
Best of luck!!

lmao

I wonder if you have an answer to the topic joethebricky..

why so hard?

Well I can only speak for myself.

When I first joined I just found it difficult to communicate online, this chatting by message was new to me and to be honest I was not long out of a relationship so I wasn't exactly bothered if I met someone or not.

I just had this impression, for some reason, that online dating was easy, I found it to be anything but.
I can be quite confident in real life but chatting on here is a different ball game.

One thing I learned, in the OP's case, is that if you give out the impression that you're feeling sorry for yourself you will get nowhere.

Then a while after I joined I found the forums and starting just logging on for that, in my case, I'm easy, take me or leave me.

quite long..

I asked about something down there.. hanging

Pardon me joethebricky.. just messing

It's not just Mingle, the other sites are the same, free or not ( although I wasn't as nuts as to pay for it )

These days, people - especially women - are afraid of their shadow, even if that shadow is on a screen. Many women have made bad decisions heaped upon bad decisions and have pawned off the responsibilities of bad relationships on their ex-partners, forgetting it takes two to tango, even a bad tango.
So they've adopted the victim's mind-set in blaming everything on the ex. It's easier that way. They get to walk away smelling like roses and free to make the same mistakes over again while the guys are left childless with all the broken pieces, court dates and payments.

On the other hand, ultimate responsibility - although should be shared with the partner who 'felt' so right about it - rests with the men. If men nowadays had a spine instead of jelly, they would NOT lay with any and every woman who happens to find them 'cute' and 'cool' but would insist on boundaries, propriety and respect - going BOTH ways.
If men nowadays had balls instead of peanuts, they would insist on keeping their individuality and refuse to be treated like children or retards just for the hope of 'getting lucky' and would insist on shouldering ALL responsibilities ALONG with ALL the decisions in the couple's affairs. Only then would it be justified for women to blame their ex for everything.
Of course, no woman would agree to that

You're right, it is quite long

Why ask why? Try Bud Dry.