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Topic: Finding " The One "
Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 07/29/16 03:28 PM
It's not so much about looking for it as it is about staying open to it.

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Fri 07/29/16 07:25 PM
It's not so much about looking for it as it is about staying open to it. no one is going to knock on your door unless they know you are there

tmh1063 Joined Fri 07/01/16 Posts: 1965	Fri 07/29/16 07:44 PM
I think you have to be open to finding someone. You have to put yourself out there and be willing to get your heart broken. You have to find a way to meet people and get to know them. You never know when you will meet someone that just has that certain "spark" that you are drawn to. It may be someone you speak to and strike up a conversation with in the grocery store or someone that you have met online. You just never know. You have to be willing to take that "leap of faith" though. You just never know. I think it really is about meeting the right person. But I don't think there is just one right person for any of us.

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Fri 07/29/16 08:19 PM
I think you have to be open to finding someone. You have to put yourself out there and be willing to get your heart broken. You have to find a way to meet people and get to know them. You never know when you will meet someone that just has that certain "spark" that you are drawn to. It may be someone you speak to and strike up a conversation with in the grocery store or someone that you have met online. You just never know. You have to be willing to take that "leap of faith" though. You just never know. I think it really is about meeting the right person. But I don't think there is just one right person for any of us. Spark and chemistry is the starting point

Magical321 Joined Sun 04/06/14 Posts: 6967	Sat 07/30/16 04:34 AM
I agree with others, if you are not looking love will find you, no time and no place . . . As ms Dessen said, it happens Accidentally

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Sat 07/30/16 11:01 AM
I agree with others, if you are not looking love will find you, no time and no place . . . As ms Dessen said, it happens Accidentally Could be around the next bend

1whoVALUEStogetherness Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 22	Sat 08/13/16 02:00 PM
It does seem to happen when one just chills and waits a while. ( Just need to be careful of people who are not honest about who they are and what they want.)

arlett35 Joined Sat 08/13/16 Posts: 1	Sat 08/13/16 02:42 PM
Either way.

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Mon 09/05/16 08:08 PM
The important thing to me is leaving yourself vulnerable and open to it as it passes you by.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 09/05/16 08:37 PM
The important thing to me is leaving yourself vulnerable and open to it as it passes you by. I agree with this... I think for me when I am actively seeking, I tend to make choices that aren't wise for the long run. When I am just "being" is when I have found the love and so much more.

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Mon 09/05/16 08:54 PM
The important thing to me is leaving yourself vulnerable and open to it as it passes you by. I agree with this... I think for me when I am actively seeking, I tend to make choices that aren't wise for the long run. When I am just "being" is when I have found the love and so much more. I could not have said it better