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| Topic: is it worse to ignore IMs or click NO? | |
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Just wondering... sometimes I just don't want to talk to certain people, but I don't want to be rude.
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Its better just to say no, then they don't feel ignored
At least thats the way I look at it |
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When you click on No, do they know that? Does it tell them that you don't want to talk to them?
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i think i will not use im no more
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you can im here ?anyone got a blow0up cow that wants to cyber
 
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Oh this is a good question that I hope somebody knows the answer to. Hey how about this. You IM me, and I'll click No like I usually do
, and you tell me if it tells you I said no.
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You could have just told me the truth Mommy!
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mry you got a blow-up cow i can cyber with
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If the IM'er is teenager or in his 20s, I just close the IM but if he e-mails me to me, I will make the effort and reply
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people should email first to see if its ok, i think
Couldn't agree more.  A person of reasonable character should have enough common sense and good manners to do that. |
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YOU CAN A MESSAGE IN THAT LITTLE TITLE BOX SAYING YOUR REALLLLLLY BUSY, LEAVE MESSAGE IN EMAILS PLZ.
THAT'S WHAT I DO... |
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I'll check Bearbait.
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lol, mry... I have my usual guys that I talk to, the ones that know me, and I don't have to do the boring "what do you do for fun" routine, I think that's for emails, and after I know you enough to carry on a normal conversation, then I'll click yes
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I'd say a No is better than an ignore, like DesireeJ pointed out, it's better to acknowledge them and say no, than to just ignore them, unless you have good reason to ignore.
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Mommy, I leave them an email that I can't talk right now because I'm busy. The only thing is I think they might see me posting stuff in the forums. LOL
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then your not lying mry, your busy posting
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Nobody would ever want to ignore you Totage. Yeah yeah, just try to IM me again!
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yeah i have the same problem. I'm ALWAYS in the forums, sometimes I get "Hey mommy I thought you went to bed" lol whoops...
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LOL Bearbait, true!
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The way I see it, if you ignore, you will most likely have to deal with it again. If you don't want to chat, just say no and they should get the hint. (If you call that a hint).
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