Topic: why can get no date on here
mrsoonerrich78's photo
Sun 11/04/07 09:30 AM
the reason why because they live out of the state it like there better woman out of state than here in oklahoma i try to talk to woman in oklahoma but instant message i never get message back and i think trying to hard or it just im looking for the wrong thing

andreajayne's photo
Sun 11/04/07 09:31 AM
I think a lot of people don't like to use the IM provided here. I prefer to chat in the forums. You can make more friends that way!

mrsoonerrich78's photo
Sun 11/04/07 09:33 AM
that is so true im richie

SteveFla78's photo
Sun 11/04/07 09:33 AM
Yeah use the forum....a good way to show what kind of person you are and sure someone will eventually hit you up on the IM....just be yourself.....

andreajayne's photo
Sun 11/04/07 09:35 AM
It's nice to meet you Richie, I'm Andrea!

mrsoonerrich78's photo
Sun 11/04/07 09:36 AM
nice to meet u too andrea

cvaughn34's photo
Sun 11/04/07 09:41 AM
I have noticed that as well. The only people who will ever talk to me are those who live out of state. It seems like no one in state wants to talk to someone who lives close.

andreajayne's photo
Sun 11/04/07 09:43 AM
I rarely talk to people who live nearby... I'm ok with it though, by talking to those that I have, I have made some really great friends!

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Sun 11/04/07 10:15 AM
I am very leary of the accepting chats here, so far I've only encountered guys who want cyber sex, so, I no longer accept chat invitations from folks I don't know.

I enjoy the forums. It really is a great way to get to know folks.

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Sun 11/04/07 11:20 AM
I'm just happy anyone talks to me

cher4you's photo
Sun 11/04/07 11:22 AM
I've been on here and got a IM but took me awhile to see itlaugh

andreajayne's photo
Sun 11/04/07 11:24 AM
war, why would anyone want to talk to you when you're giving them the finger?!? jk, i'd talk to you!

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Sun 11/04/07 11:28 AM
does it honestly really matter what state they live in... friends are friends no matter where tehy live....and truly if you want to meet someone that close to you, you dont need to be on the internet for that .... I just enjoy meeting people