when u found that u loved someone u can't love.
Wake up and overcome it. let's face the future with a new face.

Thank you

Haha thank you. But I revised it.

What u mean when you loved someone you cant love? is there a restriction to who someone can love?

I was wondering if you meant "if we love someone who does not love us back"?

for example, if u love someone and u thought u r possible because u get along very well.
But several months later...other people told to you that the person got married and had kids and the person couldn't tell you about that....
Like that....it's impossible for that....but bitter in ur heart..

U will have difficult time during these days,but it's better to wake up soon and overcome it.
So,let's face the future with a new face,haha

Ouch, that would be difficult to take. It is very sad that there are people like that. The best advice I have is to just move on but I am sure it is difficult to trust anyone again.

It's really hard to move on because maybe u already loved the person too deeply....sometimes love make people crazy....u will not know what will happen to you next steps if some things are out of control.

Crazy things is that still trust the person,but ......eventually, we have to wake up....and go on my life..
Anyway,it's a long and sad story...nobody wants to suffer this bitter...it's so hard to go through it....but we have to do that.

That would be a horrible shock and painful. Very sorry you went through that

To be honest , if it were me, I would cry for months before facing the world with a new attitude. You are stronger than I am. Moving on is the best thing to do like you are doing

Yes love can make people crazy but were u in a relationship with the person coz it takes a lot of time apart to go & get married & have kids, its like you were not in a relationship or am i missing something

This relationship is dead. So give yourself lots of time to grieve. The pain is unbearable right now but believe that it gets better in time.

Joining Mingle2 is a good start in moving on. But be aware that there some bad people out there that are preying on vulnerable people.. so always keep your guards up.

Welcome to Mingle2
and I wish you all the best in your search

I don't always forget about that someone that I loved but never had........But when I do, it's usually when I have banged her best girl friend.

Actually.i want it "passed",but I haven't passed it yet. Now I try to overcome it ...yes.i cried a lot because of it ..maybe...until now...I am not stronger enough to pass it now...,but I will.....but I don't have choices. It will come to pass one day.
When u loved someone, the person maybe is already part of ur heart...because the person was the center of ur world before.

Anyway. I need a faith that I can pass it one day ..just often feel painful...
And now I want to transfer my attention to something or myself...love myself more.... It's better for me

Yes, the relationship was dead,only left bitter and painful to me and need to take time..i will never suffer this kind of relationship again.

I'm a newcomer here..
Wow so many countries people here...interesting

Feel free on Making friends but sometimes stress on love relationship...because u care about the person too much.ove or too over...

Expect nothing.u will never be disappointed.

The downside to love is very painful, we all have been there, hang on, take your time and one day it will pass. Good luck to you.

Thank you all of you.

it is very hard to get over those feelings and may take awhile but at some point it was not right for you... being they had a wife and children ... you did not know about ... an your feeling you did not want to be a home wrecker ... which leaves you in a better place ... and feel more comfortable moving on ...

Thank you.thats right.

Sim