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After I started talking to men online..I noticed how many young men were hitting on older women. Is this a new phenomenon with young men brought on by the Internet or...has this always been the norm? I was kinda shocked by it all.
I then remembered back to when I was 25 and caught my then husband flirting with an older woman with teenagers. |
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Soo are you complaining that young men find you attractive..?...lol
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Did I say me?
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It's all about the disclaimer..lol..
It's all about the disclaimer the disclaimer.. Ok.. it is really.. all about ...the bass about the bass.... Great now I have that song stuck in my head..lol.. |
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It's all about the disclaimer..lol.. It's all about the disclaimer the disclaimer.. Ok.. it is really.. all about ...the bass about the bass.... Great now I have that song stuck in my head..lol.. I deserved that |
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Was it always this way?
Here's what you're ultimately saying: I noticed men were hitting on women
Yes. It was always that way. Age is the least of what matters to getting laid. Is this a new phenomenon with young men brought on by the Internet
I think it has far more to do with medical technology than internet technology. There's a reason why The Graduate did so well in the box office. It's not a new phenomenon. The internet just allows more people to know and gossip about what all of their neighbors in other houses, neighborhoods, cities, states, and countries are doing. has this always been the norm?
Not really a "norm" like openly accepted as a standard, just not uncommon and usually more subtle and kept away from the neighbors. Has it always been kinda the "norm" to hit on women in the same manner as on the internet? No. The internet provides anonymity and safety. Instead of being extra nice and helpful to your friends mom, you can go online and ask directly for sex. Instead of buying apples and candy for the teacher, you see a teacher from another school on a website and send her pictures of your junk. No slapping, no calling someone's mom to tell them what you did, no "my kid won't be hanging out with you anymore," no, "you've got a reputation." Chris Rock's routine about is probably more helpful. https://youtu.be/_xJHJAPIx_I |
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After I started talking to men online..I noticed how many young men were hitting on older women. Is this a new phenomenon with young men brought on by the Internet or...has this always been the norm? I was kinda shocked by it all. I then remembered back to when I was 25 and caught my then husband flirting with an older woman with teenagers. I get more messages from younger men then I do from men closer to my age.... some are younger then my kids... But it is nice to know somebody still finds you attractive... even if they are to young.. lol |
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Was it always this way?
Here's what you're ultimately saying: I noticed men were hitting on women
Yes. It was always that way. Age is the least of what matters to getting laid. Is this a new phenomenon with young men brought on by the Internet
I think it has far more to do with medical technology than internet technology. There's a reason why The Graduate did so well in the box office. It's not a new phenomenon. The internet just allows more people to know and gossip about what all of their neighbors in other houses, neighborhoods, cities, states, and countries are doing. has this always been the norm?
Not really a "norm" like openly accepted as a standard, just not uncommon and usually more subtle and kept away from the neighbors. Has it always been kinda the "norm" to hit on women in the same manner as on the internet? No. The internet provides anonymity and safety. Instead of being extra nice and helpful to your friends mom, you can go online and ask directly for sex. Instead of buying apples and candy for the teacher, you see a teacher from another school on a website and send her pictures of your junk. No slapping, no calling someone's mom to tell them what you did, no "my kid won't be hanging out with you anymore," no, "you've got a reputation." Chris Rock's routine about is probably more helpful. https://youtu.be/_xJHJAPIx_I |
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After I started talking to men online..I noticed how many young men were hitting on older women. Is this a new phenomenon with young men brought on by the Internet or...has this always been the norm? I was kinda shocked by it all. I then remembered back to when I was 25 and caught my then husband flirting with an older woman with teenagers. I get more messages from younger men then I do from men closer to my age.... some are younger then my kids... But it is nice to know somebody still finds you attractive... even if they are to young.. lol |
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When I was a younger man and a bartender I flirted with older women because its the complete package so to speak, maturity, looks, the ability to see through the BS, the way they projected themselves with confidence, of course I was to immature for them but I sure was infatuated.
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Edited by
jacktrades
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Thu 05/26/16 05:50 PM
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When I was a younger man and a bartender I flirted with older women because its the complete package so to speak, maturity, looks, the ability to see through the BS, the way they projected themselves with confidence, of course I was to immature for them but I sure was infatuated. then I don't think it would surprise you to know that is still the reason they give today when I ask them why... so I guess things haven't changed except now we are the older women...lol |
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After I started talking to men online..I noticed how many young men were hitting on older women. Is this a new phenomenon with young men brought on by the Internet or...has this always been the norm? I was kinda shocked by it all. I then remembered back to when I was 25 and caught my then husband flirting with an older woman with teenagers. I get more messages from younger men then I do from men closer to my age.... some are younger then my kids... But it is nice to know somebody still finds you attractive... even if they are to young.. lol I know what you mean.. I have the same problem.. glad to know I'm not the only one feeling that... Do you have the answer of what to do... let me know if you figure it out...lol |
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The blunt truth. The great majority of younger guys that hit on older women are looking for one thing, sex with an older woman. The game is, If they can talk you into it, you teach them what they need to know. So when they find the young girl they desire to be with, you get dumped. Then again, There are older women out there that like teaching young boys. I had mine many years ago. It was my summer of 42.
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The blunt truth. The great majority of younger guys that hit on older women are looking for one thing, sex with an older woman. The game is, If they can talk you into it, you teach them what they need to know. So when they find the young girl they desire to be with, you get dumped. Then again, There are older women out there that like teaching young boys. I had mine many years ago. It was my summer of 42. no question about it the only thing it could ever be about would be sex and I don't think any woman would think it could be anything else... It still makes me feel good to know that I look good enough to get asked even if I don't do it... I mean I don't think I'd get asked if I was 200 pounds and ugly... lol of course I always tell them to find a girl their own age.. |
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The blunt truth. The great majority of younger guys that hit on older women are looking for one thing, sex with an older woman. The game is, If they can talk you into it, you teach them what they need to know. So when they find the young girl they desire to be with, you get dumped. Then again, There are older women out there that like teaching young boys. I had mine many years ago. It was my summer of 42. |
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Edited by
Candiapples
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Thu 05/26/16 07:37 PM
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After I started talking to men online..I noticed how many young men were hitting on older women. Is this a new phenomenon with young men brought on by the Internet or...has this always been the norm? I was kinda shocked by it all. I then remembered back to when I was 25 and caught my then husband flirting with an older woman with teenagers. I get more messages from younger men then I do from men closer to my age.... some are younger then my kids... But it is nice to know somebody still finds you attractive... even if they are to young.. lol I know what you mean.. I have the same problem.. glad to know I'm not the only one feeling that... Do you have the answer of what to do... let me know if you figure it out...lol |
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The blunt truth. The great majority of younger guys that hit on older women are looking for one thing, sex with an older woman. The game is, If they can talk you into it, you teach them what they need to know. So when they find the young girl they desire to be with, you get dumped. Then again, There are older women out there that like teaching young boys. I had mine many years ago. It was my summer of 42. Lately for a few days now...been fighting off a 75 yr old hitting on me for sex But am finding it amusing as well |
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I mean I don't think I'd get asked if I was 200 pounds and ugly.
You might be amazed. I've seen some that, Well, as long as it didn't stink and hadn't been dead over three days, totally do her. Others, as long as the fat roll is deep enough. True story, A guy I once knew was seeing this really fat woman for sex. It took five times of having sex with the woman before he realized he was sticking it in a roll of fat. He said it was good sex. He could let go and not have to worry about getting her pregnant. As far as ugly goes. With a lot of men, it doesn't matter. With some men, as long as she has two legs and a hole in the middle, they happy. Don't mean to be crude. It's just the truth about some men. Including young ones. |
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I generally prefer women a little older than younger
Seems like it's just easier to get on the same page for whatever reason Speaking reasonably older here I do not chase 75 year old ladies |
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