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As stated I haven't had sex since I split with my ex gf over 18 months ago !! I don't know what to do .. Maybe I'm trying to hard or maybe women just don't find me appealing .. I was with my ex for 9 years I'm over her I just find it hard to ask the question or even approach women ,what do the ladies think?? Maybe I'm discusting maybe not I just don't know ...:(
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Edited by
mikey5360
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Wed 05/18/16 01:12 AM
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No big deal....use the time wisely....
When I split from ex several years ago I went 4 years without sex...on purpose... I found the time great for finding myself...and shedding baggage from the past... When I was ready to enter the would again I joined here... posting in the forums on a regular basis is a fantastic way to start interacting with women again...and have some fun at the same time... Welcome and good luck man... |
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Edited by
MrBeeKeeper
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Wed 05/18/16 02:35 AM
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I just find it hard to ask the question or even approach women ,what do the ladies think?? Yep, it's tricky to find the right approach to a woman you like, especially if you're not a pub or a bar type of guy. But try to be positive and natural. Find the right moment .. be yourself .. and a wide and warm smile can always melt any ice and pave the way to the girl's heart. And then you don't have to ask anything. It all just comes .. Wish you good luck |
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Thanks dude
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As stated I haven't had sex since I split with my ex gf over 18 months ago !! I don't know what to do .. Maybe I'm trying to hard or maybe women just don't find me appealing .. I was with my ex for 9 years I'm over her I just find it hard to ask the question or even approach women ,what do the ladies think?? Maybe I'm discusting maybe not I just don't know ...:( so sex is the only reason for life? try building models or something, so sex won't take up 95% of your thoughts.. women can tell what men are thinking, and if they know it's sex, which it usually is, they'll run you through hoops to get it... |
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I've said it before and I will say it again..
Lube and Kleenex |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Wed 05/18/16 03:02 PM
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I've said it before and I will say it again..
Lube and Kleenex... N1 add-on.. POF....yup... works every time..lol |
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Wow 18 months some have gone longer.
Take this time to get to know yourself. Reflect on things. Be happy |
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I've said it before and I will say it again.. Lube and Kleenex... N1 add-on.. POF....yup... works every time..lol Lol and you had to say it twice. I think he got the message |
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I've said it before and I will say it again..
Lube and Kleenex... N1 add-on.. POF....yup... works every time..lol haha a very smart suggestions |
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Getting to know yourself is very important. May also be important to not find the same type of women since unfortunately it did end. So maybe even understanding what you want and like, and what kind of relationship you are looking for could be another way of utilizing your time. Good luck
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Edited by
mzrosie
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Wed 05/18/16 05:22 PM
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triple posted
what happened??? |
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Edited by
mzrosie
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Wed 05/18/16 05:23 PM
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triple posted
Time to dance |
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Edited by
mzrosie
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Wed 05/18/16 05:50 PM
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As stated I haven't had sex since I split with my ex gf over 18 months ago !! I don't know what to do .. Maybe I'm trying to hard or maybe women just don't find me appealing .. I was with my ex for 9 years I'm over her I just find it hard to ask the question or even approach women ,what do the ladies think?? Maybe I'm discusting maybe not I just don't know ...:( Hi Seanc007 From your post, it seems that your priority in finding a woman is to have sex. Most women want to be wooed first. You know, flowers, chocolates, dinner... before you blurt out, I wanna have sex with you. Even then, there is no guarantee that you would get lucky. If you say you are disgusting or not appealing, then that's how you are projecting yourself. Stop it! Get hold of yourself... oops I don't mean it literally. To take your mind off sex, I suggest you go to the gym and workout your frustrations, and get a hobby... Good luck ..ooop forgot to say Welcome to Mingle2 |
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As stated I haven't had sex since I split with my ex gf over 18 months ago !! I don't know what to do .. Maybe I'm trying to hard or maybe women just don't find me appealing .. I was with my ex for 9 years I'm over her I just find it hard to ask the question or even approach women ,what do the ladies think?? Maybe I'm discusting maybe not I just don't know ...:( Before I get to the topic at hand.. Hi Welcome to Mingle.. Wow really... 18 months... From what I just read all it seems you want is a quick roll and move on. Most women want more.. Some have gone a lot longer than that.. Me personally I want so much more than a quick hop in bed... best wishes in your search |
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I like to play sports everyday but I am doing nothing
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