Topic: Haven't had sex since I split with ex gf
Seanc007's photo
Wed 05/18/16 12:54 AM
As stated I haven't had sex since I split with my ex gf over 18 months ago !! I don't know what to do .. Maybe I'm trying to hard or maybe women just don't find me appealing .. I was with my ex for 9 years I'm over her I just find it hard to ask the question or even approach women ,what do the ladies think?? Maybe I'm discusting maybe not I just don't know ...:(

mikey5360's photo
Wed 05/18/16 01:11 AM
Edited by mikey5360 on Wed 05/18/16 01:12 AM
No big deal....use the time wisely....
When I split from ex several years ago I went 4 years without sex...on purpose...
I found the time great for finding myself...and shedding baggage from the past...

When I was ready to enter the would again I joined here...
posting in the forums on a regular basis is a fantastic way to start interacting with women again...and have some fun at the same time...

Welcome and good luck man...drinker

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Wed 05/18/16 01:13 AM
ok

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Wed 05/18/16 02:20 AM
Edited by MrBeeKeeper on Wed 05/18/16 02:35 AM

I just find it hard to ask the question or even approach women ,what do the ladies think??


Yep, it's tricky to find the right approach to a woman you like, especially if you're not a pub or a bar type of guy. But try to be positive and natural. Find the right moment .. be yourself .. and a wide and warm smile can always melt any ice and pave the way to the girl's heart. And then you don't have to ask anything. It all just comes .. :wink:

Wish you good luck :smile:

Seanc007's photo
Wed 05/18/16 02:44 PM
Thanks dude

mightymoe's photo
Wed 05/18/16 02:48 PM

As stated I haven't had sex since I split with my ex gf over 18 months ago !! I don't know what to do .. Maybe I'm trying to hard or maybe women just don't find me appealing .. I was with my ex for 9 years I'm over her I just find it hard to ask the question or even approach women ,what do the ladies think?? Maybe I'm discusting maybe not I just don't know ...:(


so sex is the only reason for life? try building models or something, so sex won't take up 95% of your thoughts.. women can tell what men are thinking, and if they know it's sex, which it usually is, they'll run you through hoops to get it...

no1phD's photo
Wed 05/18/16 03:01 PM
I've said it before and I will say it again..
Lube and Kleenex

no1phD's photo
Wed 05/18/16 03:01 PM
Edited by no1phD on Wed 05/18/16 03:02 PM
I've said it before and I will say it again..
Lube and Kleenex... N1 add-on..
POF....yup... works every time..lol

Annierooroo's photo
Wed 05/18/16 03:02 PM
Wow 18 months some have gone longer.

Take this time to get to know yourself.
Reflect on things.
Be happy

Annierooroo's photo
Wed 05/18/16 03:03 PM

I've said it before and I will say it again..
Lube and Kleenex... N1 add-on..
POF....yup... works every time..lol



Lol and you had to say it twice.
I think he got the message

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Wed 05/18/16 03:58 PM
I've said it before and I will say it again..
Lube and Kleenex... N1 add-on..
POF....yup... works every time..lol

rofl rofl rofl haha a very smart suggestions

brainsandall's photo
Wed 05/18/16 04:04 PM
Getting to know yourself is very important. May also be important to not find the same type of women since unfortunately it did end. So maybe even understanding what you want and like, and what kind of relationship you are looking for could be another way of utilizing your time. Good luck:smile:

mzrosie's photo
Wed 05/18/16 05:16 PM
Edited by mzrosie on Wed 05/18/16 05:22 PM
oops triple posted

what happened???

mzrosie's photo
Wed 05/18/16 05:17 PM
Edited by mzrosie on Wed 05/18/16 05:23 PM
oops oops oops triple posted

Time to dance
:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

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Wed 05/18/16 05:21 PM
Edited by mzrosie on Wed 05/18/16 05:50 PM

As stated I haven't had sex since I split with my ex gf over 18 months ago !!
I don't know what to do .. Maybe I'm trying to hard or maybe women just don't find me appealing .. I was with my ex for 9 years I'm over her I just find it hard to ask the question or even approach women ,what do the ladies think?? Maybe I'm discusting maybe not I just don't know ...:(



Hi Seanc007

From your post, it seems that your priority in finding a woman is to have sex. Most women want to be wooed first. You know, flowers, chocolates, dinner... before you blurt out, I wanna have sex with you. Even then, there is no guarantee that you would get lucky.

If you say you are disgusting or not appealing, then that's how you are projecting yourself. Stop it! Get hold of yourself... oops I don't mean it literally. shocked

To take your mind off sex, I suggest you go to the gym and workout your frustrations, and get a hobby...



Good luck
flowerforyou


..ooop forgot to say
Welcome to Mingle2
:smile:



SitkaRains's photo
Wed 05/18/16 05:27 PM

As stated I haven't had sex since I split with my ex gf over 18 months ago !! I don't know what to do .. Maybe I'm trying to hard or maybe women just don't find me appealing .. I was with my ex for 9 years I'm over her I just find it hard to ask the question or even approach women ,what do the ladies think?? Maybe I'm discusting maybe not I just don't know ...:(



Before I get to the topic at hand..
Hi Welcome to Mingle..


Wow really... 18 months...
From what I just read all it seems you want is a quick roll and move on.

Most women want more..

Some have gone a lot longer than that..

Me personally I want so much more than a quick hop in bed...

best wishes in your search

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Wed 05/18/16 05:31 PM
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