You darn tootin' you found someone special on here s2h...and don't you dare forget it or i'll put you over my knee and spank ya tell you can't sit down again

Whether an internet dating site works or not actually depends on the person. If you are here to just meet people, and have some fun on the blogs, it works great. If you think the absolute person of your dreams is hear, put down the pipe so you won't dream like that anymore.

The perfect person isn't anywhere. All have flaws that must be addressed before any realtionship can move. When you find the person who's flaws you think a cute and quirky, then you've got something.

I want someone with just a few flaws.....not alot of flaws

***fingers in ears****

Not listening to Kater!!! Not hearing you!!!!!!!

Don't need to have that image in my head for the weekend, of s2h getting his butt spanked. Then it only brings up the image of what will happen next!!!


Love you guys!!!


Oh and yes, this site really does work!!! We met on here too!!

i believe they work just like anything else. but u cant get ahead of yourself. and u have to keep an open mind.

I think it would be rare to actually find a life partner from an online dating site. I think most likely people are just going to find alot of online friends. I'm not crossing my fingers for anything.

I'm happy for my friends that have found LOVE here, I know that it works. I'm just not to sure that it works for ME....

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{{{{Joanne}}}}


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It's not working for me, but I sure am having fun.

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klc -- the note they give over on the ol' stinky Harmonica is pretty generic, just says their 29-point matching doohickey has concluded you're unmatchable, like 20% of those who take it -- people who know more about these things than I do, tell me you have to answer the questions with a certain level of religiosity -- they don't want non-Christians on their site -- later I heard they don't want people who pay close attention to their credit card statements, either, although I never got far enough to see that part of it....

Lex, I was on eHarmony for a bit. Why yes they would match you with people most would "close" communication with you meaning there are 4 stages to get to "know" the person better. Which means you could not actually talk to the person until "Stage 4" Any effort to get someone to "communicate" with you would lead to 1. No response 2. A response then nothing at all. Complete waste of time and money.

War, I actually went to the site and took the matching thingie before I ever knew anything about the site....! I went into it with the (erroneous!) assumption that it was just another dating site.

Of course, how many of the other dating sites have 1500 commercials on TV every day -- ?? None around here, I can say that much! So, they must be making some money; TV time ain't cheap.

But, of the people I have talked to since then, who have actually used that site, the feedback I'm getting is 90% negative. There was a post here a few weeks ago about the fact that they don't allow gay people to join (goes back to the religious requirements). And I've heard from a lot of people who experienced "billing irregularities." Apparently, you have to jump through 147 hoops if you want to cancel your account, and even then, it's iffy!

I just think it would be more honest if they would advertise as a "Christian" dating site. But then that might cut into the membership totals if they were too up-front about it....?

I noticed something quite odd before I left. I had put down Spiritual, but not affiliated with a religious group as a preference. Then I noticed my matches came up with various religious backgrounds even though my settings for my matches were "Spiritual, but not affiliated with a religious group". I have no problem with peoples religious backgrounds but why would they try to match you with someone who you know right off hand you would probably have some differences in regards to religion and beliefs. I would have to agree with you that they are a "Christian" dating site.

I was on that e-harmony place they had offered a free month or something so I joined to see what was up with it, in that one month period they could not match me with anyone anywhere, now I am a divorced,42 Under 6 feet tall close to 200 lbs thinning hair carpenter but I did not know that made me unmatchable I gotta say they are full of dog dookie and just preying on us single folk who don't do the bar scene but would still like to find a place to start making friends that hopefully at some point get to meet in person if for nothing more then a group gathering. I used to go to the MIRC chat rooms and got hooked up with a group of local chatters that met every Tuesday night to do something mostly went to starbucks and sat around talking but we would go bowling as a group or play billiards. there were quite a few couples that came from that kind of setting so like was said earlier in the post you gotta have the guts to come out from behind your monitor