Topic: why are there message in my INBox from DEACTIVATED USERS?
sulizan's photo
Tue 04/26/16 03:18 PM
why do I get messages in my InBox from users who are DEACTIVATED? What a WASTE OF TIME!

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Tue 04/26/16 03:28 PM
I get them as well.. maybe they are scammers who have changed their mind. This site seems to be full of them, I haven't had one genuine member contact me yet. Laurie

mikey5360's photo
Tue 04/26/16 03:41 PM

I haven't had one genuine member contact me yet. Laurie

Your profile has a very stringent list of requirements...
Which is fine for weeding out who you seek...
But it is very limiting...
And will be the primary reason you don't get "real' mail...
But post more often and have views on lots of different subjects...
This is what attracts readers...and ultimately mail from interested ladies....

Cheers mate...from QLD..drinker

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Tue 04/26/16 03:47 PM
Maybe they are impatient people. They might write to 50 people and if they don't get an answer within 1/2 hour, deactivate. Maybe these people are not really serious to begin with. It's just a game.

mightymoe's photo
Tue 04/26/16 03:48 PM

why do I get messages in my InBox from users who are DEACTIVATED? What a WASTE OF TIME!


two reasons-- either they are scammers who were booted, or they are tired of the scammers and left on their own... they don't delete profiles here, just deactivate them.... for advertiser reasons

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Tue 04/26/16 06:19 PM
You can just about bet it's scammers that are getting booted out before you can answer or read there messages. This site is eat up with all kinds of scammers and spammers. Be glad they are catching them before they can do damage.

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Fri 05/06/16 10:03 PM
Had the very same issue. I was wondering what was going on with that.