So how does this mutual match thing work? If you don't click on people, do they click you? I just actually completed the mutual match until there was no more pending or whatever. Or do people of the site say "Hey! Let's see if they like each other?" Very confused here. Because a few from what I seen through this mutual match are women that I would have never guessed would be on here. I mean, I actually see potential here. Well for me atleast. I am on here not desperately seeking... But wow... I am quite impressed. So someone squash this for me and tell me this happens by some random generator and not by those who were pending.


Thanks,
Faustino

Well if you fit their qualifications then they can click on you for a yes no or maybe. If you both picked each other then you will be notified of it and then let it progress from there. Just make sure you e-mail them once you get notified, some women are shy.

Honestly Faustino I don't know..it confuses me, I don't use it any more, it also kind of scares me.But I'm weird like that.

Okay so one of these ladies emailed me back. They said they had clicked yes. But who put me in their list for possible match? You know? Does someone go around playing matchmaker? Did I fill something out saying what my preferences are and it randomly searches for my specified criteria? I am sooooooooooo confused. LOL

When you filled out who you are looking for and how far away, they fit into your range and you into theirs. So the computer figures that out and sends you the info and it to them.....once you click yes or maybe you are sent notice of it. The no's disappear.

Ooooooooooooooh Ok. Thanks. I was kind of scared there. LOL I wonder if this will actually work now..... Hmmmm........ I don't need a girlfriend now but ......... Maybe.

Glad to be of help!!!

Hey Faustino,
The Mutual match aspect of this site is good.It gives you an idea of the people in your area that fits the profile you filled out.Look them over and if you see someone you like in close proximity to where you live,Click on their profile.You will see what their interests are and If all goes well there,send them an e-mail.Tell them you saw their profile and pic and would like to chat.The worst that will happen is Nothing.But think Positive.You might meet someone GREAT and end up becoming good friends.Keep going till you connect with someone.After awhile,you will see how easy it is and how much Fun you can have.Hope I explained it well enough for you

You did a fine job explaining. Thank you so much for your help. As well as everyone else who contributed or contributes comments and information.