No luck here... be honest!

I doubt you want to hear this but hey you ask so here goes.


For a smart, should be tech savey, 28 year old you come off like someone 23 or younger. If it were not for the trimmed cookie duster on your chin I would wonder if you were legal for Mingle. PS Facial hair is loathed by the majority of women even if you think it is way cool when you are hamming it up for the mirror.

Some of the pictures and self description are relegating you to "my gay friend" status wheather that is true or not. No haters I don't care if he is gay just if that is not what you are seeking don't set it up. That does not mean you have to come off like a thug but a little professional maturity would get you a lot further. A nicely done full length photo. A engageing smileing head and shoulders shot. Multiple picture with out repeating the one "teeny bopper" I only have one costume outfit look. The selfies are really juvinile. And lean on the cheezy side. Or marvel comics which is not a complement to someone who says they are employed and pushing marriagable or bust age. No evidence of a degree, transportation,travel, belonging to any groups, or living outside Mom's house you can't compete with men who are drawing from your age peer females big time. Late 20's early 30s dateing is really tough so you HAVE to bring your "A" Game or stay home.

Your profile description is all over the map. Maybe you are shooting for flexible or not sounding sterotypical but there are more contradictions than trends. The interest you do mention are so generic how a person could start a conversation with you I have not a clue. You want to have a female respond to you like and adult you want to instill at least the suggestion that you have job skills, a career direction, and might be more than a grab and grope date with someone desperate.

Are some of these descriptions over the top? Sure. You are probably a nice guy who has kind of a boreing job and really doesn't know he is blowing his chances whineing but it is to tweek your brain and make you think about a presentation that not only women but future employers are going to see. Good Luck.

Alright well let's see:

Your pictures are fine maybe add something that shows more of the body. Or you doing things. Again it's not mandatory.

Your Intrest, however, need work I would go with picking 5 or more hobbies. 2 Things to do indoors and 2 outdoors then one mystery thing you really love. Or maybe ask yourself the question. What do I do to nourish my Brain, Heart, Body, and Soul?

Your Bio well there you really should organize it a little more. Start with Hi my name is blank... I like the fallowing... I would consider myself a romantic.... And I would love the chance to get to know you. Basically, my yellow flag with you is your thing says you are looking for a relationship. Yet your interest reads like a guy who is down for whatever. And we all know about those types.

Hope this helps. And it should be noted PacificStar48 is right in her directness. You are in a competition to get noticed. And showing off your unique traits would go a long way.