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Topic: Is It Wrong?
whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Wed 10/31/07 06:22 AM
I have been going through a lot the last few days. And Friday marks the one year aniversery of something dramatic. What I am asking is. Is it wrong to want to be close to somebody that you think the world of, and that makes you feel safe when talking to them?

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Wed 10/31/07 06:26 AM
sounds normal...unless you are just using them...brenda

CombatMedic68W Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 747	Wed 10/31/07 06:26 AM
There is nothing wrong with that... i go through that once ever year... it makes that one day so much easier to go through if some you care alot about is there with you...

shutterbug Joined Sat 06/16/07 Posts: 34376	Wed 10/31/07 06:27 AM
NOT wrong at all. That is part of what I look for to whisper. You are a lucky gal to have found him.

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Wed 10/31/07 06:27 AM
Hard to use somebody that lives 900 miles away.

Raineegirl Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 314	Wed 10/31/07 06:27 AM
I think if you are vunerable, you may make some poor choices in trying to find comfort..... please be careful...and good luck.

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Wed 10/31/07 06:27 AM
SB, I have found nobody, he does not seem yo understand.

CATBW56 Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 7224	Wed 10/31/07 06:29 AM
doesn't like it's wrong at all....if you have someone that's close to you where you can share your most inner secrets or whatever, I'd take that as a sign that he/she is very good friend.

thunderbear1967 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 2491	Wed 10/31/07 06:41 AM
Whisp it is our nature there are times when we want someone we have feelings for close by. I go through this from time to time, myself. Just keep your head at these times and remember you wanted the strength from that person to help you overcome the event and do not let the event trigger other events you may regret later. Hope I made sense. Respect Thunder Bear

Twitch Joined Thu 09/27/07 Posts: 6199	Wed 10/31/07 06:45 AM
no hon -- there is nothing wrong with wanting a "safe haven" with someone you trust as long as your motives are sincere. are you the "safe haven" for the other person.

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Wed 10/31/07 08:10 AM
Nothing wrong with that, Mel....Just shows that you are a caring and loving person....if you need to drop me a line you know all the ways to get a hold of me!! {{{{{{{{{{Whisper}}}}}}}}}}

island_boy26 Joined Thu 10/04/07 Posts: 983	Wed 10/31/07 08:11 AM
no way..why would that be wrong..thats only natural

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Wed 10/31/07 08:13 AM
Its just to bad that he isn't closer to you! If he is a good friend..I think its normal to feel safe and close to him. Friends are good

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