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I just came out of a four year long relationship and I was giving it my all only to find out that she only needed someone to take care of her tell her man got out of prison. Is anyone ever honest any more
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Edited by
sybariticguy
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Tue 04/12/16 02:06 AM
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Sadly she took advantage. It is not true for you to generalize about a single bad experience. The next thing to do is get help and grieve and then begin learning how to trust again. Then you can begin starting your life with others not being jaded by your past deceptive woman.Hope you see that your pain could keep you from loving and genuinely living and that it is prudent to address this immediately. To the extent you don't work it out you will not be able to move forward emotionally... As painful as this is, its a life lesson that needs to be faced so you can grow and move on with your life and not remain bitter.. Remember over 57% of people who have been divorced for more than ten years are still angry with their ex partner and this is tragic and keeps many from genuinely loving another as they are still having unresolved emotional issues from a past spouse.. What we ignore will only harm us and keep us from moving on with our lives.....
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Sadly she took advantage. It is not true for you to generalize about a single bad experience. The next thing to do is get help and grieve and then begin learning how to trust again. Then you can begin starting your life with others not being jaded by your past deceptive woman.Hope you see that your pain could keep you from loving and genuinely living and that it is prudent to address this immediately. To the extent you don't work it out you will not be able to move forward emotionally... As painful as this is, its a life lesson that needs to be faced so you can grow and move on with your life and not remain bitter.. Remember over 57% of people who have been divorced for more than ten years are still angry with their ex partner and this is tragic and keeps many from genuinely loving another as they are still having unresolved emotional issues from a past spouse.. What we ignore will only harm us and keep us from moving on with our lives..... I agree....move on and learn to love again..that is the reality of life but in order to have a happy new life, you must be able to have overcome your past as this will haunt you and put to risk your future relationships if ever you fall in love again....hopefully with a sincere partner who will love you truly and not just use you for her own selfish intentions...Be of Good Heart...Don't dwell on your miseries...If you need someone to talk to, people here in the forums will surely lend an ear...Life is Short...Be Happy and Make the Most of It!!! God Bless You... 
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Well thank you so much for your reply. Yes I am bitter and I know what you are saying is true. But I'm scared to try again I don't trust myself or my judgement
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Thank you and I may just do that. Maybe talking to strangers I could open up better. I mean what have I got to loose right
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Well thank you so much for your reply. Yes I am bitter and I know what you are saying is true. But I'm scared to try again I don't trust myself or my judgement We all have a story to tell, only on a different situation or circumstance, but learn from your mistakes and don't let fear ruin your happiness. Trust your instincts and activate your sixth sense..Good luck and all the best for you... 
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Sadly she took advantage. It is not true for you to generalize about a single bad experience. The next thing to do is get help and grieve and then begin learning how to trust again. Then you can begin starting your life with others not being jaded by your past deceptive woman.Hope you see that your pain could keep you from loving and genuinely living and that it is prudent to address this immediately. To the extent you don't work it out you will not be able to move forward emotionally... As painful as this is, its a life lesson that needs to be faced so you can grow and move on with your life and not remain bitter.. Remember over 57% of people who have been divorced for more than ten years are still angry with their ex partner and this is tragic and keeps many from genuinely loving another as they are still having unresolved emotional issues from a past spouse.. What we ignore will only harm us and keep us from moving on with our lives..... ^^ This one. |
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I'm sorry this happened to you. You might try to let your anger/grief/feeling sorry for yourself by writing down how you really feel. You can swear all you want, call her all the nasty names you can think of, be really angry in writing... like a journal.. then put it away... until you feel free and happy again.. then burn the damn thing.
Never ever be afraid to fall in love again. But keep this in mind... 
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Donald Trump and his hairpiece agree.....you can find true love for the millionth time. |
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That's a sad story. But did you both share caring and love? Then it wasn't a waste. You took a piece of her with you and she took a piece of you with her. Not all relationships are meant to be "happily ever after". Some people search their whole life for a moment In love. Some never find the moment. It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. -Shakespeare
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That's a sad story. But did you both share caring and love? Then it wasn't a waste. You took a piece of her with you and she took a piece of you with her. Not all relationships are meant to be "happily ever after". Some people search their whole life for a moment In love. Some never find the moment. It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. -Shakespeare Ouuuuccchhhhh....It Hurts so muchhhh, it really does....but that is the reality of life...Got to Move On....Ohhhh....I don't know to which direction should I go??? (N.E.W.S.) 
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Yes there is
What happened to you just sucks |
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Yeah it does and I am trying to move on. It gets a little more complicated but still I know I will move on
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yes there is but we are few and far in between because of ******** that take us for granted and take advantage of us.
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