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Topic: What r u thinking about right now?? - part 57
peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Mon 04/04/16 12:53 PM
Peggy be who you are If they can't accept that then they are not the one for you. Never change your positive character to please someone else Thanks Annie I 've been battling with whether I should try be the cool chic who doesn't talk about things that deeply concern her, and who keeps the mood bubbly and light even when I'm troubled. I wish I were that girl, but at this age it's doubtful that I will morph into that person.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 04/04/16 01:33 PM
mmmm it is obvious at the beginning when you first meet someone that you might want to keep things light and up beat nobody wants to date a downer but your time together progresses then you would both hopefully open up and be more honest and talk about it all after all no one is in a good mood all the time unless it is substance induced

adivorcedone Joined Wed 08/12/15 Posts: 7591	Mon 04/04/16 02:00 PM
Go for it bro hook her in lol Everyone have an awesome day thanks for your permission...oops, I meant encouragement ... I think I may.... You back to work then huh!!

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Mon 04/04/16 02:13 PM
mmmm it is obvious at the beginning when you first meet someone that you might want to keep things light and up beat nobody wants to date a downer but your time together progresses then you would both hopefully open up and be more honest and talk about it all after all no one is in a good mood all the time unless it is substance induced Hey Tmom Now I am wondering if I come across as a downer when I'm expressing my concerns, whereas I just view it as being transparent. Hmmmmmm... As you so rightfully alluded, that's not endearing Maybe I need to work on the timing for venting my concerns and maybe work on my delivery as well. But the other part of me is thinking that if you have to work that hard for harmonious interactions, maybe the synergy is off

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 04/04/16 02:33 PM
if you do not feel comfortable and trusted in your communication with someone who is supposed to care about you if you feel like you are second guessing which part of your personality you are allowed to show? move on baby he is not the one for you

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Mon 04/04/16 02:46 PM
if you do not feel comfortable and trusted in your communication with someone who is supposed to care about you if you feel like you are second guessing which part of your personality you are allowed to show? move on baby he is not the one for you I tend to look inside myself a lot to assess if I am the root of an issue. You've given me alot to think about. Thanks TMom

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 04/04/16 02:51 PM
I'm thinking about pizza.

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Mon 04/04/16 08:43 PM
Im thinking... Im glad I e-filed my taxes today...

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 04/04/16 09:31 PM
Im thinking... Im glad I e-filed my taxes today... Ahhhhh. I remember the good ole days. New coke.....Max Headroom....filing your taxes attaching a stamp to the envelope and putting that bad boy in the hands of a stranger who worked for the USPS.....how I miss those simpler times.

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Mon 04/04/16 09:33 PM
Im thinking... Im glad I e-filed my taxes today... Ahhhhh. I remember the good ole days. New coke.....Max Headroom....filing your taxes attaching a stamp to the envelope and putting that bad boy in the hands of a stranger who worked for the USPS.....how I miss those simpler times. ((( Goofball ))) Dude! You and me both!

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Tue 04/05/16 05:25 PM
Im thinking... If I brought a book to read at work, Id surely fall asleep...

adivorcedone Joined Wed 08/12/15 Posts: 7591	Tue 04/05/16 05:34 PM
I am thinking we should salute technology, for opening us up to endless possibilities....save the trees...read online...

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Tue 04/05/16 05:44 PM
I am thinking where's my brain

adivorcedone Joined Wed 08/12/15 Posts: 7591	Tue 04/05/16 05:47 PM
Thats amazing, how are you thinking, if the whereabouts of the brain is listed as unknown location...Hi Annie.....

Kathyzee Joined Fri 05/01/15 Posts: 1791	Tue 04/05/16 05:51 PM
I'm thinking about how much I luved my last phone. I'm sure I'll never have that kind of communication with another again :(

adivorcedone Joined Wed 08/12/15 Posts: 7591	Tue 04/05/16 05:54 PM
I'm thinking about how much I luved my last phone. I'm sure I'll never have that kind of communication with another again :( Can that "phone" be subbed for "boyfriend/husband/ lover" or what...just saying ... as you "luved " it...soo much...

Kathyzee Joined Fri 05/01/15 Posts: 1791	Tue 04/05/16 05:59 PM
I wish it was lol. It's really my phone haha. This one does not do what I what it too lol..

adivorcedone Joined Wed 08/12/15 Posts: 7591	Tue 04/05/16 06:04 PM
Time to call the telephone company for service me thinks or you can call a friend...

Kathyzee Joined Fri 05/01/15 Posts: 1791	Tue 04/05/16 06:10 PM
No I'm sure the more I use n play with it, I'll know how it works n soon have it doing what I want it to do lol.

adivorcedone Joined Wed 08/12/15 Posts: 7591	Tue 04/05/16 06:13 PM
Already then...seems you have a plan to train that phone too...just dont drop it in the hot tub...