But we're all addicted to this drug called women.

It's like that U2 song, "I can't live, with or without you"

well here she is mad at me so....

There are times when a woman has to says what's on her mind .. Laughing .. Take a seat jimmy and do not interrupt me ...

A couple of words you should come to terms with ...
Hormones ..
Overthinking ..
Sensitivity
Emotional lability .. Laughing ..
In her world Perhaps 1 and 1 seldom makes two .. Her natural instinct is to analyse what you say ... your behaviour and come up with a multitude of scenarios in her head as to what your mind was thinking .. Depending on those hormones racing through her blood her response will either be logical or so far from left field it will stun you . For the same reason .. A comment which she perceives as insensitive or a threat to her feminine charms will more than likely put her on the defensive .... In which case my suggestion would be to .. Slowly back away ... . Lmao :-)

Unfoetunately ... Every woman is unique .. There is no blueprint to help you understand . It is a learning curve ... Enjoy :-)

We must trust them, if we really love them. No other choice

Women aren't complicated, you just seem to got yourself an insecure one with low self-esteem. That likely makes her depend on you to make her feel good, and that false sense of 'feeling good' starts to wobble when you compliment another woman, don't call her etc etc.

That doesn't mean you should start doing all these things the way she wants you to though. As a matter of fact, I strongly advice against it! In such cases of unreasonable expectations based on insecurity it's best to set your perimeter and to not yield. (and of course don't set unreasonable 'limits' yourself).
She will simply have to learn to trust you. So you should talk to her, but be clear about how you're going to deal with things. Don't get sucked into her drama and insecurities.

I remember similar 'phone problems' and my ex got fed up with it. He told me "You're a grown woman. I trust YOU and trust that you will phone ME if something is wrong. If not, there is no problem is there?"
I didn't like it, but realized he was right. And it actually made me feel a lot better not having to get upset cos he didn't phone me. Because I knew he wouldn't phone me every 5 seconds. I also knew he wouldn't like me to phone him every 5 seconds, so I didn't.
So basically ... I shifted my expectations. I had to, as he wasn't going to budge and give in to MY insecurities. And really, it helped me a lot. I felt set free.

You can either do something similar or get sucked into her drama and get fed up after half a year, a year, two years, and break up because you can't handle it anymore. Feeling bitter and disappointed.

Good luck

But we're all addicted to this drug called women.

It's like that U2 song, "I can't live, with or without you"

Lol...not at all Jimmy, you just make me I like the topics you post I think they're interesting