Having in such a position with somebody I find it quite confusing. People say there's no need for labels but hey let's be real how do you identify with something if it has no name or meaning. It's either you bi or you not. Studs who especially have had multiple male partners cannot use the words STRICT LESBIANS for themselves. Am I the only one who thinks that way??

Studs who especially have had multiple male partners cannot use the words STRICT LESBIANS for themselves.

I disagree with this ^^^^ .
People label themselves.
Just because a woman had many male partners, does not mean she is not a stud or a strict lesbian now.

She is what she sees herself as.


If you mean, she has sex with both sexes, in the now.. Then she is either bi- sexual or pan - sexual, & probably lying . that she is a " Strict Lesbian " & or " Butch ". Like ALL people who cheat.

Personal I don't like team switchers..

So a stud was a 2x4 when I was a kid, then it became a man with great sexual prowess...now its a lesbian? Whoda thunk it.....

And 'Strict Lesbian'=/= Strictly Dlckly either I guess

stud...huh had a whole different meaning for me



many people who 'decide' to switch and bat for other team

only after being in a heterosexual relationship

maybe that is what going on here