My opinion is look at the other side .... Does a man love every woman he has sex with? Does a man love every woman he lusts after in his heart ?
Is a man who goes to a prositute less guilty of sin & breaking the law & being immoral than the prositute?

Sex is a physical capacity, but its exercise is determined by man’s mind—by his choice of values, held consciously or subconsciously. To a rational man, sex is an expression of self-esteem—a celebration of himself and of existence. To the man who lacks self-esteem, sex is an attempt to fake it, to acquire its momentary illusion.

Romantic love, in the full sense of the term, is an emotion possible only to the man (or woman) of unbreached self-esteem: it is his response to his own highest values in the person of another—an integrated response of mind and body, of love and sexual desire. Such a man (or woman) is incapable of experiencing a sexual desire divorced from spiritual values.

The Voice of Reason

“Of Living Death,”
The Voice of Reason, 54

http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/sex.html

you might have it slightly lopsided,OP!

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