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Topic: Saying I Love You..... FOR THE FIRST TIME
mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Thu 02/18/16 06:20 AM
i'm under the firm policy of never, ever saying those dirty words together at any time... if they have a need to "hear" it and not "see it", then we don't belong together... I actually relate to what you are saying. I personally am not that interested in hearing 'I love you " anymore, unless it comes from my family or my friends. Consistency in the loving presence and loving actions of a mate is way more important to me than words I've heard a million times before. But I totally get why most people need to say and hear those words and why it means so much to them . It used to mean a lot to me too showing it is 1000 times better than saying it...

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Thu 02/18/16 06:22 AM
i'm under the firm policy of never, ever saying those dirty words together at any time... if they have a need to "hear" it and not "see it", then we don't belong together... I actually relate to what you are saying. I personally am not that interested in hearing 'I love you " anymore, unless it comes from my family or my friends. Consistency in the loving presence and loving actions of a mate is way more important to me than words I've heard a million times before. But I totally get why most people need to say and hear those words and why it means so much to them . It used to mean a lot to me too showing it is 1000 times better than saying it...

Rashidrishi Joined Mon 12/28/15 Posts: 3	Thu 02/18/16 07:17 AM
So do you wana try this time ???

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Thu 02/18/16 08:00 AM
So do you wana try this time ??? Try what? Saying I love you?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 02/18/16 08:39 AM
So do you wana try this time ??? Try what? Saying I love you? I'm thinking he has other things in mind.

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Thu 02/18/16 08:47 AM
i'm under the firm policy of never, ever saying those dirty words together at any time... if they have a need to "hear" it and not "see it", then we don't belong together... This is true, thanks Moe To me action speaks louder than words. I would not want someone to say I love you and his actions are using his fist to beat me or he's down the road sharing his pencil. That's not love to me.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Thu 02/18/16 08:52 AM
i'm under the firm policy of never, ever saying those dirty words together at any time... if they have a need to "hear" it and not "see it", then we don't belong together... This is true, thanks Moe To me action speaks louder than words. I would not want someone to say I love you and his actions are using his fist to beat me or he's down the road sharing his pencil. That's not love to me. sorry anyone would take those actions on you or anyone else, but what you're saying is 100% true. if someone is saying this and doing things that don't show love, then it's just a lie... but if they are not saying it and showing you everyday they do, you're in a good spot

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Thu 02/18/16 08:59 AM
So do you wana try this time ??? Try what? Saying I love you? I'm thinking he has other things in mind. You might have a point there goof

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Thu 02/18/16 09:07 AM
i'm under the firm policy of never, ever saying those dirty words together at any time... if they have a need to "hear" it and not "see it", then we don't belong together... This is true, thanks Moe To me action speaks louder than words. I would not want someone to say I love you and his actions are using his fist to beat me or he's down the road sharing his pencil. That's not love to me. sorry anyone would take those actions on you or anyone else, but what you're saying is 100% true. if someone is saying this and doing things that don't show love, then it's just a lie... but if they are not saying it and showing you everyday they do, you're in a good spot Thanks Moe I would rather have him show than say it.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Thu 02/18/16 09:15 AM
For myself I am cautious and analyze my feelings because to me those words carry a very heavy weight and I want to be sure I mean it, but if I feel it is indeed love I have no problem saying the words. I really don't plan anything I just say it. This is pretty much where I land too. I may wait awhile and try to say it in a quite private place but generally id it is what I feel I say it to the person.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Thu 02/18/16 09:36 AM
Typically I wait until I am really really drunk... and then I just blurt it out.. I LOVE..youuuuuuu... shortly followed by me throwing up behind..a fence... Yup.. love is a beautiful thing...lol

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Thu 02/18/16 10:04 AM
Typically I wait until I am really really drunk... and then I just blurt it out.. I LOVE..youuuuuuu... shortly followed by me throwing up behind..a fence... Yup.. love is a beautiful thing...lol Wow how could she not love you after that? Words with strong meaning. Lol sign you up for school for gentlemen.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Thu 02/18/16 10:10 AM
Typically I wait until I am really really drunk... and then I just blurt it out.. I LOVE..youuuuuuu... shortly followed by me throwing up behind..a fence... Yup.. love is a beautiful thing...lol Wow how could she not love you after that? Words with strong meaning. Lol sign you up for school for gentlemen. ... at the time my hair had grown down past my shoulder blades.. . As she stood behind me holding my hair as I vomited... she said I love you too... at that moment I said...baby.. as long as you are willing to hold my hair.. I will always be there to hold your hair while you get sick.... now thats true love..wink..

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Thu 02/18/16 11:15 AM
Typically I wait until I am really really drunk... and then I just blurt it out.. I LOVE..youuuuuuu... shortly followed by me throwing up behind..a fence... Yup.. love is a beautiful thing...lol Wow how could she not love you after that? Words with strong meaning. Lol sign you up for school for gentlemen. ... at the time my hair had grown down past my shoulder blades.. . As she stood behind me holding my hair as I vomited... she said I love you too... at that moment I said...baby.. as long as you are willing to hold my hair.. I will always be there to hold your hair while you get sick.... now thats true love..wink.. That's so sweet that way you said it. Lol so romantic Puke in love

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Thu 02/18/16 11:24 AM
Typically I wait until I am really really drunk... and then I just blurt it out.. I LOVE..youuuuuuu... shortly followed by me throwing up behind..a fence... Yup.. love is a beautiful thing...lol Wow how could she not love you after that? Words with strong meaning. Lol sign you up for school for gentlemen. ... at the time my hair had grown down past my shoulder blades.. . As she stood behind me holding my hair as I vomited... she said I love you too... at that moment I said...baby.. as long as you are willing to hold my hair.. I will always be there to hold your hair while you get sick.... now thats true love..wink.. That's so sweet that way you said it. Lol so romantic Puke in love ..lol..I know !! I have a way with words.. what can I say!.. it's a gift..wink.wink..lol

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Thu 02/18/16 11:35 AM
Typically I wait until I am really really drunk... and then I just blurt it out.. I LOVE..youuuuuuu... shortly followed by me throwing up behind..a fence... Yup.. love is a beautiful thing...lol Wow how could she not love you after that? Words with strong meaning. Lol sign you up for school for gentlemen. ... at the time my hair had grown down past my shoulder blades.. . As she stood behind me holding my hair as I vomited... she said I love you too... at that moment I said...baby.. as long as you are willing to hold my hair.. I will always be there to hold your hair while you get sick.... now thats true love..wink.. That's so sweet that way you said it. Lol so romantic Puke in love ..lol..I know !! I have a way with words.. what can I say!.. it's a gift..wink.wink..lol One of a desirable traits you have bro.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Thu 02/18/16 12:32 PM
at this point in my life I have no need to say it back to someone just because they say it to me first

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Thu 02/18/16 12:49 PM
at this point in my life I have no need to say it back to someone just because they say it to me first ... and another brick goes up on the wall... come on now!.. let's tear that wall down not build it up...lol..wink.... I know! I will go back to my corner and mind my own business..lol....

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Thu 02/18/16 01:15 PM
Ps: Nice pic David. I officially welcome your human alter ego to the forum. Welcome to mingle Mingle2 has a new policy requiring a site member to have an approved avatar in order for that person to post in the forums. The site's administration can't handle avatars depicting my natural Melmacian awesomeness. So, I have to appear disguised as a Human. Well I like the Human disguise too. You are always a plus to the site.

lu_rosemary Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 9123	Thu 02/18/16 01:17 PM
Ps: Nice pic David. I officially welcome your human alter ego to the forum. Welcome to mingle Mingle2 has a new policy requiring a site member to have an approved avatar in order for that person to post in the forums. The site's administration can't handle avatars depicting my natural Melmacian awesomeness. So, I have to appear disguised as a Human. Well I like the Human disguise too. You are always a plus to the site. I agree :)