Topic: need help with dating
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Tue 02/09/16 10:12 PM
I saw a girl I really liked that worked at a fast food restaraunt but was wondering would it be okay to hit on a girl at work.

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Tue 02/09/16 10:28 PM
I saw a girl I really liked that worked at a fast food restaraunt but was wondering would it be okay to hit on a girl at work.

Maybe if you're really great at reading women.
Otherwise you'll never really know if they're being nice to you because you're a customer or they're into you.

Not to mention it can be putting them in a horrible position.
You know where they are and have to be.
If you don't get the answer you want, they don't know you, they don't know if you will try to get them fired, freak out, start yelling, cause a scene, stalk them, wait outside for them to get off work.
And if you sit there and tell them you aren't going to do these things that's probably going to creep them out.

So...if you are really great at reading women, their body language, tone, attitude, etc., what they're trying to communicate by everything but what's coming out of their mouth, then it's "okay," IMO.
You'll know if they want you to hit on them, to what degree, and when to back off.



Otherwise, be patient. Go in there often and be a customer first, becoming a regular customer.
Order food, and while that's happening make simple conversation, remember what she says and use that in the next conversation.
Then "hit on" her when it feels comfortable to do so.



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Tue 02/09/16 10:36 PM
yeah I thought it would spell trouble and its to bad to. I really thought she was pretty.