I know there is still different answer for each individual. Mine Is Love first and then sex.

Hmm, i like too

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Me too. Love first

I think sex help ppl connect and get closer as a whole sex comes first bc it's a part that builds the love

They aren't absolutes or mutually exclusive.

Sex you really have no control over.

As soon as you see someone attractive, to any extent or degree, your body automatically prepares itself for sex.
It releases a flood of chemicals and hormones into your body and system.

The same chemicals that help you actually feel love and bond with a mate (or person) are the ones driving you to have sex and preparing you to have sex.

At best you're saying "I like being a junkie, my favorite part is waiting until I really need it before injecting myself. I know there is still different answer for each individual user."

It's all the same, you're just delaying gratification because you've convinced yourself you'll get a better or more meaningful high.


The only really decent answer is "I wait for reciprocating love to have sex. At that point there's enough trust and security in a relationship it minimizes many of the dangers from STD's and/or pregnancy as opposed to promiscuity."

Anything else is just being a brain chemistry junkie.

I'll take lust first....the sex....then her whipping me into shape to where I fall in love....then more lustful sex......win-win in my book.

Attraction -> Compatibility -> Emotional/Spiritual Connection -> Physical Connection

both.. hahaha ..
I Know i am selfish

Except that tonight, since its Friday here....in bars everywhere, itll be:

Attraction->Alcohol->Physical connection->Walk of shame