I'm lance. I'm like to think of myself as a decent looking man GOD LOVING family first hard working and I love to smile but I love even more to make the one I'm with smile more. With that being said why can I not find a half decent woman on here atleast to talk to?

Hi ! Welcome to mingle!It might be helpful if you fill out the blurb in your profile with something about yourself ie who you are and maybe what you want out of this site or maybe out of life. you can fill in interests as well. The words hi/hi sexy/hi baby/" in the open line is often ignored by women . I encourage you to read the profiles of the women you approach carefully, and mention one of those details in your opening lines and try to not ask her questions already answered in her profile. If she doesn't have a profile , then maybe you can google the country she is from and mention something that is unique to her country in your first line.
know that here are also filters on some of the women's profiles that will prevent you from messaging them such as age , distance of country etc. Don't let those things discourage you. Send as many greetings out as possible and when women don't respond , just move on. You will find others that like you. Post topics in the forum whenever you can so you will be more visible and people will get to know you. Hope you find what you are looking for . Good luck to you!

Get on the forums and hang around. Right now there are too many fakes and scammers on this site. They don't hang around the forums much because they stand out like a sore thumb. They get ignored. On the forums, you stand a better chance of weeding out the fakes.

That is what the site's forums are for.

Thanks for the advise everyone!!!

Because this isn't the half decent woman to talk to store?

This should be only one of many things you are using to find a half decent woman to talk to.

In conjunction to this site use other sites, other apps, networking, other social media, and take advantage of opportunities that present themselves to you every day you leave your home.

Don't put all your hopes on one place.