Like many other members here, I have a rather diverse experience with dating sites. They are featured by various settings, formats and attitudes, but as a typical member I'm interested in their romantic potential. From that point of view, I can divide the entire manifold of dating sites into two main categories: those in which I'm noticeable and solicited, and those in which I become transparent, a nonentity's profile. This site is great in terms of management and community spirit. But it's one of the worst I've ever experienced in terms of the trasparency categopry. It's beyond me why, I've posted the same personal particulars and pictures as in other sites, still somehow I remain totally transparent. Even in a more snobbish and presumptuous sites, I gained more attention from the ladies, but here NADA !!!

is your hair real?

we've never seen your hair, Gypsy...

Joined 24 hours ago, from the UK, in a predominately US and Canadian site, with only a few internationals that have joined so far.....


hmmmm wonder if that might have anything to do with it???

You won't come up in ladies' searches if they are looking at area specifics, and that is what they have their search settings on, unless they are from the UK.

Give it time, I was the lone aussie, with a part time side kick for a while, the site is growing, and changing...

24 hours sounds like a movie title, rather than a dating site time limit.

Im bald.....is your hair real?

Please crawl out of your burrow, and we'll see who you really are...

Lmao, Gypsy41 you know I was thinking the same thing. But seriously. Idealist, the site isn't about how you can clasify others into catergories, and how you can calculate your populalirty. I mean c'mon now its a dating site. Your supposed to have fun. If you treat this like some sort of experiment, that's what it's gonna end up being. An experiment.

GET IN THE POST DUDE & HAVE FUN..... IF YOU POST THEY WILL COME!!

maybe he was an experiment

You know what John Waine replied to the same question, Gypsy... and if it bothers you, come check for yourself...

Gypsy, one thing I can't stand, cowards who launch arrows from behind the screen... come out, and we'll see you, bald or no bald...

comeon now lets play nice

ok well idealist I am sorry taht when you entered this site and made a profile people didnt just grevitate to you ...


and I am having a hard time figuring out why I mean your such an idealist

Got a fan Gypsy???


No one else exists in this thread...

Get in and join some of the threads.If you don't post. You are labled a "Lurker". And not many will stop to say hi.

if you come out public, I'll post a picture with my splendid baldness... DEAL ???

To be totaly honest it bugs me to feel like I'm transparent. I see don't have that many post. You gotta put yourself out there if you want to get recognized.

i THINK HE LIKES ERIC BETTER!!!

I am TRANSLUCENT !!!!!!!!!!!
AND PROUD OF IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
no reason to feel ashamed!