Hi metalmomma80, welcome to M2

You and your ex are still living in the same house. That must be really difficult for both of you. Your profile name says you are a mom so children are involved. Maybe you just need to get out of the house and have your "me time."

When you're lonely, it is like holding a sign saying "Hey I'm desperate" .. unscrupulous men will try to take advantage of you. Just be aware.. have a good time but always keep your guards up. But if you can, wait a little bit longer until you are on your own two feet.

Meanwhile, join us here in the forums. We are a friendly bunch... and most of us don't bite.