fortunately its not me, i just know this whole thing like the back of my hand

If she treats him like crap, why is he still with her? Is he really that whipped? No girl should treat their man like that, just like no man should treat their girl like that. If she is bad to him, he should drop her no if, ands, or buts.

well i feel the same way, but i dont like butting into other peoples problems, its just that he called me from wisconsin at 3 in the morning asking me wut to do, he was crying and everything. i felt like a therapist

We all have our therapist days, but you should tell your friend what you think, and what has been said here tonight. And if he won't listen, that normally means he don't want to hear the truth. Not much you can do other than that.

have any of you ever been in love? it makes you do funny things.

yeah well i appreciate everyones advice, and hopefully he'll get this crap figured out

Yeah duffy, I was in love for 4 years, and I just saw the truth in may.

yes i most certainly have, in fact i fall in love very easily (one of my faults i guess) but lately i havent had anyone to fall in love with

Send him my/our love and support to help through this. Its a hard road.

DUFFY, NOW I'M SINGLE AND LOVING IT!!

ill do that 4 sure

I hope he figures everything out.

me too. thanks again everyone

no prob, we're all a big family here.

okay well it was an honest question. i have been in love, and it is very hard to understand what is going on. for all those of you out there with a loving relationship, no offense. for those of you not in love, you know what i am talking about.
i wish the young man nothing but the best, and hope it works out. love is a crap shoot. 50% of the time it works, 50% it does not. only the gods know in this case. goodnight.

If that was someone else replying to her on her myspace page then it sounds to me like someone was kissing on her and then she felt rejected for some reason becuase he would not break up with his girlfriend??. Sorry if I am a late chimer inner here. It sounds to me very much like she is definitely messing around on him then. Just be there for him the best that you can. And I think it will all work out in the end. You sound like a really good friend so sometimes it really takes a lot for someone to see the real truth of a situation especially if they are blinded by love. Just be there for him when he realizes all of this.

thanks for the advice nursey